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How do i tell my parents i'm bisexual?

Asked by dorcus53 over 3 years ago, 11 answers.

see im a guy, and im bi, my parents are always discussed by gay and bi people, there the kind that are mean about it and are always critisizing it when there talking about gay marridge and stuff like that my moms a church whore and is always forcing me...

to go and my step dad just goes along and to me I feel that whatever makes you happy do it unless it illegal of course but I want to tell my parents but im afraid they wont accept the fact that im bi and might end up putting me in some club where parents put there kids in to make them not gay, but the thing is I dont want to go thru the trouble of going and I want them to accept it. please help!

Answered by bubux007 on May 14, 2006, 01:23PM
1959 answers

I do not know how old you are. Till you are under your parents' control, i do not advise you to force informing them about your sexual interest. You write that you are bi, so you can have a g/f. Do have. And do not tell your parents about your episodical bi adventures. If episodical. If not episodical ppl around you will find it out without your information, be sure about this. Anyway I feel that for the present even you do not know what you want to be.

Answered by liluxo on May 14, 2006, 06:46PM
337 answers

I have a friend in the same situation, although he is gay not bi, and he has known it for 2 years yet hasn't said anything to his parents who are very religious and bias against sexualities other than straight. Although it's hard for him, he takes comfort in having friends who accept him and knows that one day he will tell his parents when they won't be able to influence him (or force him) to go somewhere to change. It may be hard, but if you really think they will send you somewhere and you don't want to go through that, try holding out and confiding in friends or other family who you can trust until the time is right to tell your parents. Good luck

Gold crown Answered by phil2611 on Mar 06, 2007, 05:30PM
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Greetings fellow user,
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-Your parents should accept this although they don't. You did not choose this! You did not choose your fate! If stupid people who cannot accept that people don't choose these things, are making fun of you just ignore them. But however in my religous veiw, the only reason you should have sex is to reproduce.
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Answered by jroebuck on Jul 26, 2007, 09:26AM

its probably best not 2 tell them because parents always over react and i have a friend who is having the same problem and that is wat i told her.

emo Answered by happyoutsidsadinside4 on Aug 20, 2007, 01:39PM
61 answers

if i wer u id keep it a secret 4 a while longer n if u finally want 2 tell them say it ter your parents they luv u no matter wat!!!

emo Answered by happyoutsidsadinside4 on Aug 20, 2007, 01:44PM
61 answers

ur mom sould not force u into being staight thats very mean and dont let them force u into the club fight it n say if you truely love me as your son you sould exept me no matter wat!!! tats wat u sould say before u tell them ur bi!!! stay strong xoxo!!!

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Oct 18, 2007, 01:36PM
53985 answers

being bi is similar to straight so u dont have to tell ur parents unless u get married to a guy

Answered by sinister24 on Jun 18, 2009, 03:03PM

One of the things to do in a time like this Is wait for the right moment I mean obviously your parents are gonna be disappointed but they should also remember that they love you and If they can't accept that then its either you run away for a while or just deal with what ever is coming towards your way just remember that there your parents and they can't hurt you they will only hurt themselves for never accepting there own son , honestly In time they will learn how to accept you and learn how to face there fears just give yourself time and them time.

Answered by pinkdottedbow on Jul 25, 2009, 06:50AM
616 answers

I see no reason to tell them.

As much as adults tell you that communication is important during these years, some things are /your/ business, and your parents have no reason of getting into that.

Your parents keep more secrets from you than you think - they should respect your privacy, as well.

Answered by darklittleangel09 on Jul 29, 2009, 02:15PM

I feel the same. I had recently become bi and I have a girlfriend but we`re secret but she`s working on telling her mom. I was once les then ym mom found out and threatened bible school every day. I became straight for a while until me and my girlfriend admitted to eachother that we were bi. So now, I`m scared as heck the they`re gonna send me to one of those club-thingies too. I don`t know how to tell them and my mom used to force me to go to church and my family is full of homophobics. So, I`m scared to tell them too.

Answered by wispa_ap on Oct 07, 2009, 10:45AM
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Im bi too, but my parents dont know. My dad would say its just a phase and my mum would treat me diferently, and I dont want that because we are so close. Im 13, so it may well just be a phase, but Im not sure. My dad recently left my mum and she suggested seeing a counsellor as im not taking it well, so I suppose I could tell the cousellor??

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