How do i tell my mom im not a virgin anymore?!?

Kay so I recently have had sex my mom and dad are soo proud of me for not having sex early considering in turning 18. I dunno when I should come out and tell my mother that I've just had sex , me and my boyfriend have been sneeking around having sex...

behind both of our mothers back. the only one in my family that knows is my sister and she wont say anything to anyone. I duno what I should say to her and when I should say it... anyone have any ideas?

okay well I would have your boyfriend sitting with you on the couch with your parents looking you straight in the eye. tell them mom, dad im not a virgin anymore, I know your probably disapointed in me but I dont regret my decisions. hope this helps

Just tell her.. Be forward with her dont beat around the bush

is it that big of a deal? IT wouldn't make a difference whether or not I was a virgin to my parents, not like I was 15 and I came home sayin-mom im not a virgin!- haha prety dumb in my opinion.

Im in your position as well.
I've been with my boyfriend for two years and we've been sexually active for awhile and my parents dont have a clue. They think im waiting.
I would never tell my parents because there more strict then other parents.
But its your choice if you decide to tell your mom and dad. and if you do tell them, make sure you tell them that your using protection. (I hope you are)
Good luck to you and your boyfriend sweetie!

Wow that was a subject that totally had nothing to do with my parents. They had no idea when I had sex, they never asked and I never told. When I had my own children - same thing. I taught them how to be responsible and they took it from there. I've no idea when or if they started and don't want to know.

I guess each family is different, with its different levels of openness but to me, that is way out there.

Yeah im for sure using protection , and they are pretty strict if my dad finds out he would kill me (not literally) but my mom now seems pretty cool about it all I guess in a way but I still have no idea how shes going to think of me after she finds out that I did it in his house after both his parents and my rents both said that we would never do that in each others house , soo now I think she's going to be reallly disappointed in me
yikes ;

I called my mom on the phone because I was in maryland for the summer where my boyfriend still lived and I told her I needed birth control and she said why I told her and she said ok I'll make you an appointment when you get back to north carolina I was 15 and she said she was fine with tyhat its not a big deal

I wouldn't worry to much about telling your mom and dad just yet, I mean, I know its a hard thing to do, but if you are in a serious realtionship with your boyfriend then dont tell her just yet, she will put two and two together in time! I mean you are 18, you are more than mature enough!