How do i know if i am for sure ready to get fingered or give a blo

Asked by broken_wing18 over 4 years ago, 5 answers.

So me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 10 months and we love each other to death, but whenever we are together and alone he tries to go down my pants. I let him get all the way ther but when I think that he's gona start fingering me I tell...

him to stop because I get nervous at the very last second. Honestly I realy want him to because htings like that would really improve our relationship and I tell him that I will let him but when it gets to that point I freak out. Also he wants me to go down on him and I want to do that too but I dont know what to do and he said he would help me and guide me throught it and stuff but I dont know how to approach it. I am a very shy person and I dont want to be when I am around him. I want to do all these things but when it gets to that point I always stop. please help me.
*millee

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Jul 27, 2005, 06:58PM
53985 answers

if you arent ready you arent ready! Dont try and force yourself and tell yourself you are ready when you know inside you really arent. Tell him explain to him yes you 2 will do things like that soon but for now you just dont want to. He should respect that aswell.

Answered by fdh7876 on Jul 28, 2005, 11:06AM
22 answers

Hi Millee,

I have had almost the same problem. I understand where you are coming from. You should talk to your boyfriend about how you feel. If he loves you like you love him he will understand and try to make the expieriance better and more comfortable for you. And your problem might also be that you simply arent ready. But if you seriously feel you are ready then your boyfriend should be comforting and help you along the way. Not everyone was born knowing exactly what to do in situations like this. He'll understand if your shy and/or nervous. Good Luck!

Answered by little_chuppy_buddie on Jul 29, 2005, 10:13PM
4 answers

if it alright with you then left him go for and if you wanna give him a nice little blow go ahead and get-r-done!!!

Answered by eclecticrainbow on Aug 05, 2005, 06:17PM
63 answers

ur Like 15 I doubt u Love eachother TO Death ur a Buncha Hicks

Answered by goldengirl on Aug 13, 2005, 06:06PM
6 answers

Just because shes 15 doesnt mean she cant have the same feelings as an adult, love isnt a meassure of age.

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