How can i be more popular in high school?

Look im like a geek in my school all because my hair.How do I get popular im in high school in year 8 im13 . I dont have much friends and most people dont like me SO please CAN YOU TELL ME HOW TO BE POPULAR!!!

Just be nice to everyone. The more you accept everyone for who they are and treat people the way you would like to be treated the more people will gravitate towards you. If the kids at your school think you are trying to become popular it will back fire on you so just be a nice outgoing person to everyone and if you are sincere people will want to be around you.

What's wrong with your hair?

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Good luck !!

Please! Don't worry about it! Most of the popular kids at school (including me) are struggling with crappy jobs, bad health, depression and addiction problems. Wear your hair likes it's cool man. I just found out today I have to get braces at 35, yeah being popular at school has really made my life a breeze. Do yourself a favour and do your homework.

why would you wanna be popular.
seriously... the best thing to do is be yourself... don't change who you are to fit into a group of people... the grass is always greener on the other side...
if it's not one thing it's another... be yourself and you'll be happy... no matter how many friends you have, how you look or dress, how you wear your hair, how much money you have, what kind of car you drive.

most popular people have friends who just want to be popular... they aren't real friends... they're just trying to fit in... all you need is a few close friends to help make high school easier and to have fun with...

being popular is not all it's cracked up to be...

i guess all i can say is be yourself...

luck.
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I really have to say that being popular isnt everything...though im sure ur hormones are raging and ur feelin like girls are everything....take it from someone who is 21 and has two kids now age 3 and 11/2.....just trying to be cool and popular will get you no where...barely a diploma will get you somewhere...just make sure u finish school cause it really pays off to go further than high school diploma......hoestly ur popularity will grow with you....so just live life how u been and just stay strong...all in all ur life is already set but the only thing that can take u off ur course of life are the decisions you make everyday! dont make the wrong decision by needing popularity.....

Harmonious relationship with the teachers and students, excellent grades, leading / joining the school politics and organizations, looking clean and cool, and wearing a loving heart for everyone.

Most. importantly, think more of others' welfare.

Well, don't try too hard about popularity. Some people just give parties and food, etc. and then they become popular instantly. LOL

Don't even bother to be popular. All you should be worried about is good grades. In four year you wont even see any of the people in your highschool. Just worry about your grades and not about popularity so much.

I went through that fase too. Just be yourself. be truthful to all your friends and have a laugh. Dress good to school, do your hair and make up, keep your head up and smile, walk with confidence, ull get people looking at you and then smile when you do. Your just as good as everyone else.

All you have to do is be urself and the Truest friends will appear soon..So don't change ur appearance or anything just to be more popular..Ur time will come to shine

Person 1: Is accepted for their looks because this person looks like one of the popular kids.
Person 2: Looks nothing like the popular kids but is accepted by the popular kids due to the persons personality.
What person do you want to be?

Your hair shouldnt matter, your clothes shouldnt matter. And who cares if you're not in that popular crowd as long as you have good friends? Just be yourself.

u gotta be laid back. dont be too eager. and try to do what other popular girls are doing. wear ur hair like them. and dont flirt too much. also dont date anyone of lower status. it brings ur reputation down. try to hang out wit cooler kids. most popular girls dont eat lunch so try to go hang out wit them in the gym. also try to look hot and learn how to apply makeup and no what colors look best on u. now this is bad advice if u want to be urself, but since u said that u want to be popular, im just telling u the truth. xoxo

ok im barley in junior high and every one knows me. well wat i do is i b nice 2 dem lk say if dey drop sumthin in da hall way i pick it up 4 dem and i luv fixin my hair! well if its frizzy buy a flat iron and if its napy then ad bangs lk side bangs(i have side bangs). but dnt worrie jus keep ur head up and jus b nice 2 a lot of people. well gots 2 go! good luck!

You're thinking about the wrong kind of popular. There's the OMGPREPJOCKLOL! type of popular group. You know, the cliches. You're thinking of the group of people who are probably models and/or star athletes.

Drop them.

The way for you to be popular is to be friends with whoever you get along with..just be yourself. You don't have to have the King and Queen of the school backing you up to be a well-known and well-liked student. In fact, the only people who like popular people are each other, so they're all just losers in the end. You don't want to be one of them.

I have more friends than I know what to do with, and I love them all very much, yet none of them fall into the aforementioned cliche. Except, I'm popular anyway, because isn't that what that word means? To have a lot of people like you? Don't go for the stereotype, go for the real thing.

If you want to have lots of friends, I'm telling you to be yourself, once again. Don't try to change yourself so that others will like you. If they try to make you change for them, then they're not worth your time in the first place. What're things that you like to do? Find common ground with other people. For example, I'm an avid female gamer, and that combined with my down-to-earth attitude has earned me tons of guy friends.

But there're plenty of ways to connect with all types of girls, too.. and remember, it's not like you have to be popular with every person you meet. You'll be happier with a smaller group of people you seriously like rather than in the middle of a group of large popular kids. *rolls eyes at them*

I see you like Harry Potter, maybe you like anime/manga too? I love both, so even you and I could already have common ground to work with and become friends! Just find something fun to talk about and you can work on it from there. =)

Wow thanx guys! YOU ROCK!!!
and hey youre right i do like harry potter

Just be yourself. It's better to be hated for who you are than loved for who you're not. People will accept you more if you're just yourself. If you plan on going to college, you'll be able to meet a ton of people there, because in college, no one cares who was popular in high school. It no longer matters. Just find people with similar interests as you, and strike up a conversation with them (join some clubs that interest you). People tend to be very superficial in high school, which sucks. I barely had any friends in high school no matter how hard I tried, and to this day I don't know why. Hang in there. It gets better

Good luck with everything!

in my highschool everyone was friends with everyone...
i think is because when i first started all of we already knew most people because of our older sisters and brothers. if thats not your case then just realize theres no such thing as the most popular group in highschool
its the sluts the assholes - they're only known because they're mean to everyone.
it pays off more when your nice to everyone help people out.
whats wrong with your hair?
if thats a reason why people dont like you THATS STUPID
but if it makes you that insecure buy a straightening iron and get a hair cut
maybe layers or a frame with side bangs...that always looks hot
buy prducts that work for your hair...maybe relax it or give it volume depending on your situation.

youre only gonna have a hard time if you exclude yourself.

hey it doesnt matter i you are popular dude. all you need is 2 or 3 good friends you know are going to be there for you. as for your hair just get it cut really short ,get a tape up, and a shape up. trust me you dont need that many friends. and at your age i wouldnt be worrying about that stuff. just do good in school for now. if your not popular right now then you will be by your junior year or senior year because you will change. everyone changes in high school.

p.s i like harry potter too...
and i am not a geek.

Hi it really dosent matter if you are a geek ! to be honest I would rather be a geek than be popular. The only people who like the popular people are the peopole who hang around with them U probably have more friends than they do. So so what they can get all the boys by them and be fashionable and have gorgeous hair to kill for. They are nothing really If i was you I would concertrate at school Im in yr9 and im coming 14 in January next year You will be doing exams You cant concetrate on the poopulars. The populars dont get on with me but we have talked and they are not that bad deep down and they are not about hair. But most of them wont to be size zero and end up getting pregnant at 14 do u wont to be like that ?
Good Luck If u need any help funmail me I will reply
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