How do I get my brothers to love me?

why is it that my brother are 20 I am 14 and they havn't told me they loved me since I was like 8 years old... I say it to them all the time. and they just ignore me... I guess my name to them its shut up. or go away when all I am trying to do is jsut love them... THere who I look up to,... I love them more then anything... There my idoll.. I love them more then anything...GUhhh my mom says they will just grow out of it.. but I wish they would love me. It hurts.

Don't worry, they Love you - their just guys who don't know how to express it very well - be patient, that will change (this too will pass)...now go and have a great school year !!

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thats really sad.
my older sister use to just push me away...well both of my sisters...
and well, when they did that, I stoped caring...and now I look up to my older brother..
im 13 and hes 17.
he loves me back, for who I am.
and im glad to have a brother like him. hmmzz...maybe your brother pushes you away and ignors you because, well im not sure. >_<
usally itz because thats what teens do...and I guess even if he is 20...he is stuck in the teenage years...or something... my older sis still kinda ignors me and she is 20.
so... maybe its because they were never close to you when you were younger and the fact that you are a girl and he is a guy...its very rare for a brother and sister to get along... but im glad I get along.
maybe you should just try talking to him...if he listons. sorry I could nt be such help.
but good luck.

They still love you. . . Trust me being the youngest they can't help it. . . I'm the Youngest I have a brother and sister. . We never tell each other that we love one another but we do. . . Sometimes actions speak louder than words. . . . . .Why do you think your brothrs would kill your boyfriend if they knew about your hicky?

Trust me...they love you. It just the fact that they are guys and don't feel they need to really express it. They feel it's understood. I'm willing to bet if you ever needed them or anything happened to you they'll be at your side without hesitation.