How do I get him back

well my boyfriend of 5 years cheated on me on thanksgiving two time with the same girl, he say she is in her heart and does not know who he wonts to be with. He told me that he wonts me here but wonts to be with her then he turns around and says that he wonts me and wont cheat any more but still thinks of her all the time.
my question is how do I win him back so he stays away from her and stops talking to her?

("wonts" is spelled wants) You cant stop someones heart from feeling something it shouldnt, and you cant make him stay away from her!! Maybe you should get your priorities straight, and find a guy who wants to be with JUST you!! Why do you let him play these games with you? At some point you have to say enough is enough, and move on. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Hes getting away with it because you allow him to by letting him back in your life! You have invested 5 years with this guy, and he still isnt committed to you. What is it going to take for you to wake up? Doesnt sound like you will ever have 100% of his heart!! He obviously doesnt know what he wants, and until he does, you need to stay away from him! Let him know that you arent putting up with it anymore!

You cant! why do you want to be with someone who is playing all these games between you 2 girls? I know 5 years with someone is a lot of time to give but wouldnt you have rather known now what an as*h*le he is then later on when you get married just say, it would hurt so much more. You need to stand up to him and stop letting him play you! he cant have the best of both worlds and you deserve someone so much better who you can trust and have faith in. You will always wonder now whether he is thinking about her even if you get together again, its not worth the pain, you need to let it go and be happy with yourself and find someone who wont cheat for starters, and treat you with respect and love.

You cant! why do you want to be with someone who is playing all these games between you 2 girls? I know 5 years with someone is a lot of time to give but wouldnt you have rather known now what an as*h*le he is then later on when you get married just say, it would hurt so much more. You need to stand up to him and stop letting him play you! he cant have the best of both worlds and you deserve someone so much better who you can trust and have faith in. You will always wonder now whether he is thinking about her even if you get together again, its not worth the pain, you need to let it go and be happy with yourself and find someone who wont cheat for starters, and treat you with respect and love.

He has to choose. He can be with her, or he can be with you. Not both. Tell him to decide, right now, or get lost.