How do I give a handjob or blowjob?

Okay, im 15 and I met this guy about a year ago and we see eachother once in awhile because I live in another state. Well I really like him and I want him to know how I feel. Well last time we were together he wanted to have s*x but I wasnt ready for that yet. I havent been fingered before and I have given a handjob or a blowjob, but I really want to give him one. How do I? Should I go further with him? What do I do??
please help me!

Hun>just because you like someone that you see once in awhile doesnt mean you have to give into him sexually. He is just using you. That is NOT a way to prove feelings for anyone. You do those kinds of things with someone you love, trust, and are commited to. Your not even in a relationship with him. You need to have some morals, and start respecting yourself, or no guy will if your desperate to do whatever a guy wants you to do. That kind of behavior will NOT get a guy to like you. He will only come to you when his hormones go into overdrive! After awhile, youll start to feel used!

it depends,if your ready and he is then go ahead,juss dont do somethin your uncomfertable with.....

Your too pretty to be getting treated by a guy who just really just wants to use you. Wait until you fall in love with someone so you both can experience something together as a first. U'll see that waiting a little bit is worth the long run.

I agree with anglefire2708 and valuvsu on this.

But if you feel that that sex attracts you, and you can get sexually excited by that, or just curious of the experience, then do not listen to the negative and moralizing advices. Once you have to start doing sexual things.

Darling you should wait on that. You are very young and you should know that there are lots of diseases out there and to get them would just shorten your life span. Get to know the guy first. Don't let this get to your head. Take your time too!

Listen to what angelfire2708 has written for you. If you were 18 I could probably give you some further advice but if you were 18 you probably wouldn't be asking.

yeah I have the same thing going on with a girl in utah an I live in washington. we really do love eachother 2 but I nvr see eachother so when we see eachother it makes it worth it cause we can finally express how we feel. I don't know about ths guy but I know im not just using her cause thats just a jerk thing to do. just make sure you know what hes trying to get frum u. it may b a good idea to talk to his friends and see what hes been up 2 girl wise cause if hes screwin wit other girls then hell jsut use you for more. but if you do dicide to jsut let it happen hell let you know what he wants ans what feels best

a h*ndjob is rubbing your hand up and down the pe**s, going faster to give more pleasure, a bl*wjob is sucking the pe**s like a lollypop kinda, using your mouth to go up and down and stimulate the tip of the pe**s with your tongue

if you can get a dildo, you can pracitce blowing and jacking it. also you can use to pleasure urself.

youu should doo what ever feels right 4 you after all you can only learn from yuor own mistakes hope you enjoy urself

I think that you should atleast give him a hand-job, but dont have sex yet you are too young...wait for the right guy until you have sex. if you are not sure how to give a hand-job don't worry he will teach you. it's not hard at all, get grip his pen*s in your hand and let his fore-skin glide along his shaft (fore-skin is the loose skin around the pen*s, just jerk it up and down, up and down, making sure that you bring it up past the head of his pen*s each time, this is called the glans this is the most sensitive part of the pen*s, just like your clitoris is (ya know when you rub your clit .. this is very similar in feeling) well good luck and I hope everything works out ok.
Bye