How can I start?

Ok so I’m going to this new school you know I don’t know anybody!!! Here’s the thing, I can be a pretty cool girl sometimes, but I guess I’m pretty shy and I don’t know how to make good friends. See I don’t want to be the girl that has no partner in a class, and I don’t want to be the girl that has everything handed to her. Of course who doesn’t want to be popular but I want to be a girl who most people get along with. I don’t want to make fun of people like a lot of popular kids do, I don’t want to do drugs, but I want to fit in, have fun, and be happy! I haven’t had good luck with having fun and happiness because of serious family issues, but I want to try and get out of that. So when I walk into my first class, how do I make friends? You’ll prob say oh just have confidence be nice and say hey, but deep down you know that you prob wouldn’t do that and they’ll just look at you funny especially if they’re talking in a group or two people. So do I just talk out loud when the teacher asks questions and then start a convo like that? Where am I gonna sit, and don’t say just go sit somewhere you know that’d be weird. Where’d I sit if I haven’t made any friendships yet? yes I am gonna join gymnastics next year at this school, but im not gonna sit with them the first day you know, so wbu please give me advice, I think this would help a whole bunch of people!

Answer #1

Well I’ve never been the new person since pre-school so I may not have the best advice but here it goes anyway (btw this is for if it’s in england, if its america or somewhere I have no clue)… Well when you walk in ask the teacher where to sit, if she says sit anywhere then look for a spare seat and ask the person who sits next to that seat if the seat is taken, if not then sit there (or sit in seat that your teacher assigns you to), then speak nicely to whoever sits next to you, to give off a good first impression. Don’t give off a gobby personality straight away (if your a gobby person I don’t know lol), because a new person arrived at my school last week and she was gobby and now everyone has taken her first impression and thinks she’s horrible when she’s actually quite nice. Be nice to everyone, but don’t change yourself to fit in! If you have no one to work with, go up to a nice looking person and ask to work with them. When you work with someone or get the chance to talk to them, let them know the real you and get a chance to know them to and they could be your friend in no time (: good luck x

Answer #2

Just think as others need you and you don’t need them! Don’t you know The Law of Attraction The Law of Attraction argues that thoughts (both conscious and unconscious) can affect things outside the head, not just through motivation, but by other means. Essentially, “if you really want something and truly believe it’s possible, you’ll get it”, but putting a lot of attention and thought onto something you don’t want means you’ll probably get that too. READ MORE ABOUT IT ON GOOGLE!

Answer #3

how? I dont wanna seem like a wannabe

Answer #4

Become the centre of attention!You know how;)

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