How can I change my personitly to like an easy outgoing person?

We’ll my personitly aty school isn’t working for me like I like to be fuuny an stuff my personialty right now is 1 nice 2 funny 3 talkative Well I am going to change it to 1 not so giving 2 talkative but won’t annoy people 3 I will stillbe funny but in a mature way This will take a lot of time for me but I want to let people know that I’m changing my personilty in 8th grade so I need to find a signal that I can pit out there so ya but this will be tough but we will seehow it goes:)

Answer #1

Changing and developing your personality is seriously an important thing at your age. There comes a time in life when you get older where it becomes very difficult to change who you are. Not that it isn’t hard to do now, but it becomes “more” difficult later on. One of the things that I did a your age was to make lists of personality traits that others had around me. I would list their name on the paper, and then write down all of their personality traits that I liked about them… and then a second list about the things that I did “not” like about them. From these lists, I started to see some pattterns emerge. I was better able to identify what others “did” like about me, and what they “didn’t” like about me as well… without them really telling me. (I could see from my lists some of the things that I did that needed to be changed). You have the ability to change your own lifestyle to either good or bad. If you choose bad, then the rest of your life starts to become a nightmare that just gets worse as time goes on. If you choose good, then the rest of your life becomes much better. To have your personality as 1 nice 2 funny and 3 talktive … well those are really great traits ! You are plesant to others, you have a great sense of humor, and your communitate well with others. If it were me in your shoes, I think that I would also add 4 supportive. In otherwords, giving more of yourself to causes of others. Maybe eventually donating some of your time for the less fortunate, or just being there in school for a friend to listen to their problems, and so on. Somehow, the more you give of yourself to others in life, the more you get in return. Also, you may want to consider a religion in your personality as well. Your belief in a “higher power” will quite often influence decisions you have to make in life later on and help you to make the right decisions and end up with a better outcome. It is really nice to see someone like you who cares enough about how they influence others around them to be working on changing yourself to become a better person. Who could ever ask for more than that?

Answer #2

Thank you:)

Answer #3

I dont think you should change yourself.. I mean, there is a time in life when you have to grow up but for now stay a kid., Your childhood is something extrememly valuable, because its something you can never get back once its gone. You cant just one day decide to be mature and think diffrently about everything. It just happens over time. Trust me, if I still had my childhood, I wouldnt be wanting a job at a young age or worrying about every single thing that happens in the world. Sometimes it would be nice to get away from the world and just be myself, but I c cant anymore.. it takes a lot..

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