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How can I be less shy... I wanna be more outgoing...?

I’m extremely shy. Especially at school. Sometimes I won’t even talk in my classes. Only with my 3 bffs at lunch. I usually am outgoing with people I know very well and it’s only with like 10 people. How can I get more outgoing? And talk to more people? Cus I think it’ll be a lil better to be more outgoing. Especially talking to guys. I’m a 15 yr old girl who’s a 10th grader.

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Answer #1

hmm…just relax. listen to songs that make you feel confident. pretend you feel confident and eventually you will actually feel confident! I used to be SO shy. but now im a freshman and tonight I got asked out by this crazy hot junior! its a matter of how you feel about yourself. you can do it. good luck. funmail me if you want more “in depth” advice lol

Answer #2

Tr this: Do some crazy things when there’s nobody around who knows you. Take a single friend, who’ll give you confidence and also wants to do something crazy.

Like go to a place where they have a rollercoaster. Ride the coaster and scream your lungs out. Go bouncing accross a mall and sing a merry song with your friend. If people stare, wave, giggle and go on. Dress in a strange, colorful way, dye your hair green and dance across a park. Whatever you can imagine and you thing it might be fun.

It’s a lot easier to be crazy around strangers. You can just tell youself, that it absolutey doesn’t matter what they think about you. You’ll never meet them again. If you stop being nervous about being stared at and about being different and peculiar, that will give you lots of confidence. This will also help you to show more of youself around your friends.

best wishes the sheep

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