What's the best way to hit on a girl?

What is the best way to hit on, sweet talk, or otherwise flirt with girls. I've been trying just to be nice and polite but its not workings, it just ends ups with her getting taken by another guy. I guess I'm just too slow and there have been like 5 different times this happened and 2 were with the same girl. I'd just lke some tips and pointers to getting hooked up with a girl. I still like to be the nice guy though.

I'm 16 and a sophomore in highschool and people told me I have to wait for the right girl, I think it mewith the problem not the girl

I'm 16 and a sophomore in highschool. I just want to add, I wont really be getting a car in highschool, will that affect me at all. And another thing, people say to wait for the right girls but the problem is with me.

I 16 and a sophomore in highschool. I just want to add, I wont really be getting a car in highschool, will that affect me at all. And another thing, people say to wait for the right girls but the problem is with me.'m

Hello,

Sorry to say, yes the car thing will definitly cause problems. Why dont you take on a side job and buy a cheapy ($500, should save enough in ... a month tops)? The majority of girls dont care if the car is nice or not, but having one (so you can take them out) is a very nice reason to have a boyfriend in most girls minds, if not its a sign of maturity to them.

Second, girls at your (and my age even) are not ready to settle down yet. There are 2 types of girls that I consider easy enough to be focusing on, and those are your "princess types" which tend towards boys who spoil them, and the "loves the bad boy" type, which tends towards boys that seem more "masculan" to them. Part of this has to do with the whole animal instinct sort of thing. The nice and polite often goes hand in hand with the "providor" type, which clearly (not having a car) you are not. To me it seems like some rebellion may go a long way....

Richard

hmmm, I'm a 15 y.o sophmore girl and my ex- was the nice boy type to me and the bad boy type to everyone else, and a "provider" but I am sertanly not a princess type and I don't like the bad boys, that much.... I would be yourself, if I were in your shoes I would get over it and move on,,, that is what guys do am I right?

your stressing yourself out a little too much sweetie.
if you have to change just to impress someone then is it really worth it!
just be yourself and you'll attract someone. Just smile a lot, make eye contact, and be open so the girls will approach you. Just dont stress. Getting a cheap car wouldnt hurt either. it makes things much mor convenient.

I like somebody and I really don't know about how to get around telling her or atleast getting to talk to her so I could get closer to her...I've walked home with her and taked to her on msn blha blah..but I just can't find a way of talking to her even more..Please help me find a way of talking to her and help me find out way so that I could drop hints.

okk people....listen up this is how I do it when I hit on girls. works almost all the time. this was to me by a friend who is now a United States Marine. By the way it doesnt matter if you have a car or not (just another place to have sex)

Ok you see a group of girls and your with your friends..tell your friends to chill back for a while while you break the ice.
Say: Hey ladies hows it going. pause. Ya I just got back in town and im hangin out with some friends and I saw some pretty girls and I wanted to introduce myself.

now the major part in this is bullshiting. you need to do this with them for a couple mins. this is where you win girls over BULLSH*T with them. The key to this is never letting there be an awkward silence. So after youve gotten there names Say: Ya it was great meating all of you pretty looking girls but I should get back to my friends. (shake there hands and walk away)

Now wait 5 mins go back with your friends and Say: Hey I dont usually do this but can I get one of your guyses numbers incase theres like a party or something going on I could call you. I KNOW it sounds lame but chances are one of them will give you there number. I do this every night I go out with my friends and it works at least 3 out of 5 times.. Even so learn to take rejection well because you will get rejected by someone. Let them see that your confedent and they will like it a lot! Also even if one of the girls isnt so pretty you need to aknowledge all of them.

so I hope I helped out whoever had probs with getting girls. The 2 key things you need to remember BULLSH*T and CONFIDENCE.

do what feels right dont try to be anyone else and just tell the girl about what your thinking its the best way