Is it possible to get pregnant this way?.

O.k. um me and my ex got close to having sex it was mostly just fingering and stuff but I couldn't go all the way and why question is, and I know it's stupid question, can you get pregnant if he touches himself and then say fingers you...O.k this is kind...

of embarrassing I'm too scared to ask anybody around me because I'm the 'responsible one' and they won't kill me or anything I just can't take their disappointment .
My reason for asking this is because it's been 5 months I did have my period twice, the cramps were terrible, and I have been nauseous, more than usual, and my weight gain is no more than usual for a college student.
My stomach is mushy and all you know from fat and all but my mom was still skinny when she got pregnant with my sister, like you could not tell. and Where I live if I did buy a test everyone would know.

Well, technically it IS possible if there was cum on his fingers when he fingered you. but it is HIGHLY unlikely. Don't worry about it. You're probably missing periods because you're so stressed about it.

Thank you. I do feel kind of silly about the whole thing but...yeah. Thank you.

uhh ima guy so I don't know much bout periods but da thing iz that if he happen to have pre cum on his finger then it possible that it could be nothin then unless you saw him ejaculate on his hand and well da whole period thing ask your doctor and tell him bout your problems they can be reliable in diz situations if you dont know what to do so yea go to a doctor and talk to your ex bout it if your comfortable in tellin him

Thanks.