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How can i make him jealous?

Asked by neecee143 over 5 years ago, 84 answers.

Well, lately it has been very easy for me to get jealous of my boyfriend. We have been going out for 5 months and it#039;s very easy for me to get jealous because I#039;m scared that another girl is going to take him from me and I love him...I want to...

make him jealous so he will realize how much he wants me and he will know that he doesn#039;t want to break-up with me. How can I make him jealous?

Answered by makayla122802 on Aug 25, 2007, 12:32PM

I have many years of experience ladies and gentlemen. If you want to make him jealous, I have the 100% answer.

1 rule: stop calling him and treating him like he is the most important thing in your life. Totally ignore him ( dont reach out to him)

2: Try not to answer his calls at least half of the time.

3: Once he calls you, ask who is it, and say oh you sound different, but uhh hey let me call you back in a sec. A sec can be as long as you like. The longer the better

:4. Talk about what your future plans are and how much of a sucess you will be one day in a convo or two

5: Look nice and appear very elegant smart and confident especially in front of his friends. Hold your head up and wear a big old smile at all times. Hell think wow is she better without me

6. Try not to look him in the eye as often when you talk to him but kinda scan the room as if there maybe better things going on other then him. Wear a watch and check it a few times like you have somewhere to be. Once he asks why havent you call, tell him you been overloaded with wedding parties and church functions, ladies night out, school. Anything that will make him think he is the least priority.

7.Go to the gym. Men love ladies who shows a new interest in their bods. Eat healthy

8 Make sure you have a friend call when he's around and dont pick it up. He'll wonder if its a male or a female. If he ask, tell him its just a friend it can wait. Hell think. oh is this how she feels about me when I call and no answer?

9.Treat him nice as if your over him, no hard feelings. Anger displays feelings

10. Ask about an old friend and say saw him the other day, but im not sure if he saw me. Men will wonder what made you think of the friend at that moment.

These are all very harmless and unobvious ways to make him jealous. Never try to hard because you will only look like a fool. If he knows your motive, he will run. Therefore keep it plain and natural. Hey no sweat your the hottest chick.happy

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Answered by asausman0 on Apr 20, 2004, 12:33AM
10 answers

Seriously, jealousy should not be a part of love. You are not really in love. I know that is not what you want to hear but it#039;s for real. You don#039;t need to make someone jealous if you love them. If you believe he loves you then you shouldn#039;t worry about other chicks.

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Answered by brandonsgirl on May 15, 2004, 09:50PM

My boyfriend and I hve also been dating 5 months. I feel the same way you do about other girls inferior!!! Everytime I saw him with another girl I wanted to d othe same thing. He asked me why I was doing that and I told him what was going on he said I had nothing t oworry about He was in love with me and no body else I told him it still worried me so he watches out for the girls he talks to. So my advice to you is don#039;t try to make him jealous just talk to him about it.

brandonsgirl

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Answered by advicequeen on Aug 20, 2004, 09:13PM
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First, you need to make sure that you wear totally slutt clothes in front of him and his boys. Then, you need to totally ignore HIM, while driving his buddies absolutely WILD with your new look! Hell, you could even lay a big smacker on HIM and then giggle and walk away shaking your bodatious booty!! Just make HIM think that you are the happiest woman in the world as long as you#039;re not tied down to HIM, and he will come crawling back! trust me girl, I#039;ve done it, and it works!
Until next time,
Peace girlies! :P

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Answered by lovebunny on Nov 03, 2004, 03:39PM
4 answers

im in the same situation. Ive been dating my boyfreidn for 5 months, and it seenms like forever. Im madly in love.he is in college n im in highschool, it does concern me because the college he goes to is the official skank school, and when he goes to work he is also surrounded by a bunch of hott girls. THey r.anyways, i try to not think about it, because he be an idiot if he didnt realize how wonderfukl iam. nways i dunno... should i try to make him jealuos????

Thanks

Answered by rickynlevy on Jan 15, 2005, 11:43PM

OK, girls I am a guy here to give you some good advice on how to make him jealous.. Don#039;t answer his calls everytime, act a little uninterested, don#039;t always be available for him. Make him think you have other things going on in your life other than him. Like, tell him you and some girl friends are going out and you will be back later but make sure you do not call for the rest of the night or take any of his calls. Then explain to him that you went to bed right after you got home and did not know he had called.. Hide your car so if he drives by he thinks you are not at home..This makes you seem very interesting and it drives him nuts to find out what you are doing. You want to give him just enough to tease him with. Do not flood him with emotions and too much company. Go out with him on occasions but maybe seem like you are in a hurry.. Then the next time he asked tell him you got to shop with your mother, or go out with female friends.. Never use your job as an excuse though.. Then he just thinks you are at work. You do not want him to know exactly what you are doing. See he doesn#039;t think you are out with a guy, but is not real sure either. etc etc.. Have fun.. Yeah it#039;s game playing, but it may get you what you want, but if he is not all that interested he may dump you as well.

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Answered by fairyarya on Apr 25, 2006, 10:26PM

Hey ladies, Let me tell you about a Cat and Dog relationship I had for the past year. My boyfriend and I have been in and out of our relationship for exactly a year now. My boyfriend has done everything wrong behind my back and in front of my face. He until recently didnt even call me his girl because he was uncomfortable We were friends first but later became lovers. As the months went forth we broke up at least 4 times. all him leavin because he had found another girl. But he always came back like a dog YES LIKE A DOG..Even he admits it now..lol what he had done 4 times to me I did for the first time about a month ago to him. I left him..I just found out something and I BLEW up in an email told him I wanted nothingelse from him, that after a 2 weeks got to him..and he started to make phone calls and sent me 5 greeting cards sayin how much he was sorry/missed/loved/me..so I gave him a hard time when he came back.. I do love him more then life itself. but still gave him a hard time. I told him I had gone out with friends/made new friends/have other volunteer things I did. just to remind him You aren’t everything. I assure you DONT make my mistake at first don’t let him keep leaving and coming back. yes its true if its meant to be nothing can stop it from happening. but I would not rather go through field of thorn just to reach the best rose. Let him earn your LOVE girls please don’t let him control you at any point
good luck ladies
:DGreeneyez!

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Answered by smiliyface on May 01, 2006, 07:45PM

ok, heres how you do it!!! you dress in sexy clothes and flirt w/ other boys like his best friends. ignore him completly and then when he asks whats wrong just be like. psh, like you care.
good luck ladies!!

Answered by angelmother6 on May 13, 2006, 03:25PM

hey if you really love him and he really loves you you shouldnt try to make eachother jealous if you want to know ask him your self and dont have your friends do it for you just go up to him and ask him if he thinks anyone is cuter then you k well bye

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Answered by lilsexyangel_14 on May 25, 2006, 05:56PM

well i think i kno how to make him jealous..today my friend told me he was in the third floor of my school looking out the window which by the way is where he spyes and where he can see what am doing outside in the driveway of the school..so anyway there he was looking to c what i was doing i knew he was lookin so i pretended to be all happy and hyper and i took one of my guy friends and started to flirt with him because my ex thinks i like him or he likes me or sumthin so he went downstairs to look out the door or call or sumthin and i saw him and since i was hyper at the time i decided to tell my friend to carry me like playfully my ex saw that and go really jealous i stared at him and he walked away jealous. my friends told me he was furious but of course i was happy..i kno this might sound kind of mean for some ppl but i just wanted to show him how it feels when he does the same....i dont kno for sure but i think making someone jealous its not always going to work

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Answered by ellie_dollie357 on Jun 21, 2006, 02:44PM

well my stories pretty much the same as everyone else..me and my ex were together 9 months until about 2 weeks ago..we fought non stop and i love him more than anything in the world but he decided he needs time for himself so he dumped me and i pretty much havent stopped crying since..the weirdest part about it is that nothings changed since we broke up..like hes still trying to tell me what i can and cant do and who i can and cant see, were still arguing like an old married couple and were even still having sex..at the beginning of our relationship he started doing e and i was totally against it n than him and a girl i was friends with dragged me into the shitt to and we started doing it everyday n he was always driving dealers around for free shit and he began lying to me about everything but we got past that and we quit e together and i havent done it in almost 3 months ..but im starting to worry about him doing it bcuz ive caught him in a few lies in the past couple of weeks and i cant trust him for shit..i just wanna kno what to do because im stuck..should i keep trying to make him jealous to get him back or would i be better off just trying to forget him and find someone who wants to be with me?..please help..
*elyse

Answered by hsd on Jul 03, 2006, 08:29AM

All of these comments are good ones...they all make sence..but i know jelousy isn't healthy in a relationship, although I still kind of wana make my boyfriend jelous, but im a really sweet person, i just don't know how..but he makes me upset when hes always hanging around with his friends..and i'm sitting at home...wishing he'd call!! it doesn't help that he's two diffrent people when hes with me then his friends!!??

Answered by lil_star1232003 on Jul 22, 2006, 10:27AM

well my boyfriend promises on our relationship he was going to change ..like not drinking so much or lying to me about where he is or hanging out with other girls and not telling me ...and then waiting till his fun night is over to call me i mean i dont know what to do ...he calls me immature and also says i dont let him do anything ...but its total oppisit because i have never said he couldnt do anything ...even though sometimes i really dont want him to go...i want my relationship that we used to have before all these bad habits of his came but he doesnt want to change what do i do or say to change his mind?

Answered by tatslotus47 on Jul 27, 2006, 02:18PM

Hey!!! I have been 3 years with my guy, and everything goes tremendous, but the last days, i´ve realized that he´s terribly seek in his job, sometimes i feel very lonely, and i feel that sometimes he doesn´t matter about it. I think that making him jealous could be a strategy for calling a little bit more his attention, so i´m planning one thing:

Yesterday i met a doctor that seemed intereseted on me, and i let him my personal card (because he was interested on a date...purely for job stuff), and what i´m gonna do is sending to myself a bouquet of roses with a cute dedicatory, just the day my guy visit me... but i´ll let the bouquet outside in the yard...pretending to ignore that i haven´t seen them...so, he´s going to be the first one in looking them.

As soon as i develop this plan, i´ll return to tell my results

happy DKSFWMXF

Answered by karli_ocreb on Aug 31, 2006, 06:38PM

ok me and my boyfriend were together for 2 months i we broke it off for summer. he told me he wants me back then he went out with some other girl I want to make him wish he had me back....HOW DO I DO THAT?!?!?

Answered by datfirehik on Sep 03, 2006, 01:14AM

Well, well, well back in love again. I'm here to tell you that after being in love for 3yrs by myself it's nothing but a four letter word. Truth is, it was only about being seen with the finest boy around until I found out that he wasn't all he talked to be. I was at one of his friends house with my cousin and he was there and I started talking to his friend and the look in his eyes was so devastating that he went into shock. Yes girl, he tried to act like he didn't care and tried to brush it off, but when I hugged his friend his face hit the floor. Hahaha I felt good all the way home. They say revenge is sweet, yeah so sweet it gave me a cavity. Remember to never let them see you cry or show that you care and they will worship the ground you walk on. Let them have their way and pour out your emotions you'll never own their heart. If you need advice ladies e-mail me: Fun mail me, any day or night.

Answered by jstyles622 on Dec 26, 2006, 11:18PM

Honey, guys hate jealousy and insecurity. Every woman has an intuition, you will smell a cheater. Keep your confidence in check. Guys will leave someone who acts jealous. Remember that. And if you nagg him about it-you may as well kiss him goodbye.

Answered by irishseagirl on Apr 09, 2007, 04:26PM

hey everyone!
trying to make your boyfriend jealous isnt a good idea but sometimes there's no other choice, so just look ur best and pretend ur not that into him and talk bout other guy friends alot. it will drive him crazy that he will put more time into you and he wont wanna let you go cos he thinks u already have a replacement!
good luck! happy

Answered by crusedheart on Apr 21, 2007, 06:27PM

porbably you could get a cell and ask won of your colest boy that are your freinds to pretened his gona ask you out

Answered by lexlexil1010 on Apr 21, 2007, 08:29PM

well try to have him see you flirt with other guys if he is or you think he is seeing someone else.

Answered by rachypach on Apr 29, 2007, 06:03AM

I totally agree with the fact if you love eachother, jealousy may not be completely the right idea. BUT, it is often a way for proving to both of u that u care about each other! n its jus a reminder of tht n can often bring u closer together. if th guy is acting in a way tht makes u jealous n hurt, it can be gd for him to get a little taste of it. i advise nt being too outrageous tho, being mysterious n aloof can be a huge turn on. basically do not act needy with him!
Rach

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