Help me know if I am by-sexual or lesbian

how do you know if you are a lesbian or by-sexual I need 2 know. I think its nasty and all but I don't think I am 1 of those ever since my Ex-boyfriend and I broke up I'v been cruiose about these things he broke my heart and it's been 2 damn years that he hurted me and told me lies he havenent cheated on me but I feel so angry of what he did ever since that day I can't trust any 1 it's 2 hard just 2 say these words. now I think I like girls I'v always checked them out and all but its like I'm getting tired of boys after what he did 2 me. the thing what he did was sleep w/my USED 2 best friend he told me he did not but I belive the girl beacuse she never told me a lie before so thats why I can't tell when my Ex-boyfriend is liying 2 me so I went on her side they did it after me and him stop talken that was in my month of my birthday then I had a dream 1 night that he slept with her I woke up crying and BOOM it was true I know he has 2 be lying he's been liying 2 me the past month in a half I told him he will weep what he so's as in Karma-what goes around comes around so now I hate him and every 1 else and I am so sick of his and her bull she expects me 2 talk 2 her again so what I did was that I pushed her down the stairs and she felled I got suspended and the reason I did that was because he was the first boy I kissed and loved and that c**t did that 2 me so now I think I like girls not guys please tell me what are the systoms of being a lesbian or by-sexaul I need 2 know...please

You are not lesbian or bisexual. You are suffering from mild mental illness due to the loss of your boyfriend. I recommend you speak to a counselor before your condition worsens.

your subconsios mind is replaying the fact that he hurt you a lot you maybe coming mentally sick it could get better or worse the best thing to do would be to see your phsyciatrist.one of the best cures is to talk to another male about your problem that may get rid your possible 'attraction' to girls I but technicly you are not classed as lesbian because its like having a sleep over not like having sex with a girl.well hope you get better soon

U are just really upset. That's all. Its normal to look at other chicks. you are just fed up with that one guy. And one guy shouldn't change your sexuality. People don't suddenly change one day, some people have been dealing with mixed emotions for years. So really really really ask urself, because if you're adking for advice on this subject, chances are this is just a phase.

That guy is a jerk and I'm glad you pushed that girl down the stairs what a slut!!If your curious about the same sex why not give it a try

I had something similar happen with my ex boyfriend, and I did the worst thing ever and I went out with other guys to get over him. It sounds like u're just very upset and thiking for a reason to not like HIM anymore... so u've decided to completely change your sexuality!!?? Think twice... every girl goes thru a stage of looking at other girls... but usually its to compare to ureself, its in no way sexual. So think again, if ure still sure that you are gay then good luck to u... but decide wisely before acting on it! As they all say 'there are plenty more fish in the sea!!!'

I wouldn't give it a try..my friend tried it and she found out she isn't..she said she was sick of guys..I showed her not all guys were like that, because I'm now going out with her friend jessica..she thinks I'm the sweetest and most loving guy she's ever met..I mean, I went in for a third time because I couldn't stand how sad she was when I broke up with her, and now I'm glad..but..I doubt it, you just think that way..I mean, I look at dudes and say 'dang I wish I had that w/e it is', or 'I wish I could have nice hair like that..', etc., etc...not saying I check them out sexually, I mean, I've seen dudes and wished I had arm muscles like them(my legs are extremely muscular, torso is alright, but arms..pssh..)..you are just confused and emotionally hurt..trust me, just take some time off, forget those two, and don't start a shewoman man haters club..please..we don't need any of those lol

point is, not all men are like him..some are nice, like I would, literally, die for my girl..no joke

just keep to being straight, because you will have rumors spread and be made fun of..trust me, that happened to my friend..

I completely understand what the last person said, but I thought I was bisexual a couple months back ( im not) and my boyfriend and I had a threesome (making out lol, im 13) and I made out with my bffl and him and I realized I really am attracted to only guys give it a try you may find somehting out about yourself that you never knew

I don't think your a lesbian at all, the same thing happened to me except for the liking girl part. I dated this guy for like 3 years then he cheated on me then after we broke up he went with my best frien. The people I trusted the most fucked me over, I felt like I went nuts I went crazy. I did do a lot of partying, did kiss a girl but didn't feel anything by it then the crazyness died down. I felt better then I met this really good guy now 2ih a half years later we are together engaged and a baby. You just need to breath, give yourself time to wind down from the stress then you will know what you want or don't want. But co*k is better

try both see which one you like best . thats your answer if you like both you are BI

Hey ,

Hmm I dont think the other answer's are right!!! I know how you feel and I've just recently come out as Lesbian but now realised im actully BI I beleave because you've been hurt and that doesnt mean its turned you GAY lmao but I reakon you r BI like me...almost every guy has hurt only one hasnt and we remain friends to this very day...but even though I have a bitter hate for most guys I still are sexualy attracted to boys and girls I find a relationship is better with a girl even though there are girls that will do the dirty on you the girls I am with are emotionly more mature then the guys I sleep with I know that make's me sound like a slut but who is ANY ONE to judge I am happy like this and think maybe you should try a relationship with a girl!!!

with love BIIZZLE girl

I agree

well you're obviously not bisexual or a lesbian. first of all you said you think its nasty. if you think its nasty then apparently your not. second, there are no 'symptoms' to being bisexual or lesbian. its not a sickness. if you really were, you wouldnt talk about it that way.

I think that Cute as sin is right girl.. just take time to get over him before you make such life altering decisions... seriously the state your in sometimes people don't think before they react.. so wait, breathe, and relax, and when it becomes time, then choose

he is a jerk,,, but the only time you really know you like girls is if you experience it properly I was in the same boat,,,got hurt by too many men then started going on lesbian chat rooms,, since then I've been with 2 girls (not fom the chat rooms) and its the best thing I've ever done, im so much happier with girls ,,, but you never know untill you try it,, 4 get bout this guy hes a jerk,, we all deserve better,,, mucho love xx

symptoms (im bi and almost lesbian ALMOST! so I know)

having crushes on girls
getting sexually excited around girls (horny)
Pretty much feeling what you feel for a guy except a girl!