How can I ask my stepdad to let me go to a teen club?

My stepdad is really against me going to a teen dance club but my mom allowed me to go out there once. How do I tell my stepdad without getting my mom in trouble? And also with them allowing me to go whenever I want.

how about this

I think im old enugh now to go to a teen club, I mean im sure my mum would let me, what is wrong with me going to a teen club anyway?

somwhere along those lines... :D

thanks for the advice too

any ideas on brands?

I think its wack. If your MOM said its cool, I think you should be allowed to go, or you tell your mom straight up and have her deal with her husbands ass.

Dear alys,
When two parents are not on the same page about things it is you who suffers. So sit with both parents and ask them together. Let them sort it out. When one parent says no then the other should go along with it even though they may disagree. Parents need to act as one. So don't play one against the other...I know you want to go but every household has rules to follow...like it or not.
Sue...good luck

your STEPDAD IS NOT your DAD HE IS LESS OF AN ATHORITY FIGRUE THAN SANTA CLAUS