Categories
- Beauty & Style
- Computers & Tech
- Education & School
- Entertainment
- Environmental Issues
- Food & Dining
- FunAdvice Community
- Gaming & Games
- General Knowledge
- Health
- Home & Garden
- Jobs & Money
- Kids
- Love & Relationships
- Music
- Nutrition & Fitness
- Parents & Family
- Pets & Animals
- Politics
- Religion & Spirituality
- Science
- Shopping
- Sports
- Travel
- Writing & Literature
Get comfortable. A blow job is much more fun without a sore neck. Find a position that works best for both of you, depending on where you are (you can't really lounge comfortably in an elevator, you know) and the angle of the cock you're dealing with (work with the natural downward angle of your throat). Kneel before your man with him standing if you're in a confined area, or when you want to strike a pose that is really hot. Other positions: seat your partner and crouch between their legs (slide a pillow under your knees if you're not on a soft surface), or lay down and let your partner thrust into your mouth, (harder to control the depth, but good for you lazy types). If you're in a car, your partner can lay down lengthwise in the back.
If you're using a condom, put it on NOW! Try a Trustex flavored condom or Kiss O' Mint condom if you don't like the taste of latex. A sexy way to set the scene is to use your mouth to put the condom on before you get busy.
Give us a kiss.If you're dealing with a soft penis, you don't have to wait until it's hard to start the show. Put it in your mouth when it's soft (or semi-hard) to get acquainted. Kiss it. Lick it. Explore the different textures, especially the roughish tender head and the soft skin of the shaft. Feel it growing in your mouth. Cool, huh?
Mouth off. Slide your lips gently over your teeth for smooth sailing. Most fellatio recipients like lots of spit, but others prefer a drier job, so check in with your partner. Asking quick yes or no questions like want it dryer? or more spit? can be helpful and hot. Despite your amazing technique, you aren't a mind-reader, so watch your partner for body language cues. Heavy breathing and moans of pleasure are signs that you're on the right track.
Experiment. You can do more wonderful stuff with your mouth than just suck (and remember--the harder you suck doesn't necessarily mean the better it feels). Mix it up by licking the sensitive underside of the shaft, the nerve-ending-loaded head of the penis, and the testicles. Softly blow on the moistened areas. The combination of sensations will feel incredible.
Hands-on. Give your blow job a hand. Grip the cock around the base and slide it up and down, hand-job style, in tandem with your mouth. (Some folks like a tight squeeze, others may not, so check in.) This is great because you can cover a lot of the shaft this way without worrying about taking the whole cock in your mouth. You can concentrate on the super-sensitive head and suck as hard or softly as you'and your partner'like. Use lube for extra slipperiness. A silicone lube like Eros Bodyglide is great for blow jobs: it's concentrated so you only need a tiny bit, it's long-lasting so you won't need to keep stopping to reload, and it doesn't have a distracting taste or smell.
Deep throat. Deep-throating the act of taking the entire shaft into your mouth and throat can be cool, but you can give a perfectly stellar blow job without doing so. The key to deep-throat is to relax your jaw and throat muscles as much as you can. Otherwise, you trigger the gag reflex.
Accessorize. Bring some toys into your routine. Experiment with cockrings, buttplugs, or little vibrators (like the Finger Fun vibe) for some attention on the testicles and perineum. Hold a vibrator against your cheek to add vibrations to your mouth play. Or try sucking on ice or a breath mint to transmit a tingly sensation to your favorite penis. Again, check in with your partner to see how experimental you should be.
Get into it. Look at your partner and the ecstacy you have caused! Make eye contact. Show your partner how much you love being down there. Moan, make appreciative noises (a well-placed MMMM! can make for some nice vibration, too), let your partner know how turned on you are. Don't neglect the rest of the body, either stroke, tickle, scratch the thighs, stomach, butt, and everywhere else you can reach.
Sucking Silicone. This applies to every cock, silicone, rubber, glass, vegetable and flesh alike. When you're dealing with a dildo, treat it like your partner can feel everything you're doing to it because they can. Be careful if the toy is made of a non-flexible material position yourself accordingly to accommodate it. For more on this topic, see How to Suck Strap-on Cock.
Finish the Job. It is ultimately your choice whether or not to swallow. Your partner's diet, health, habits and frequency of ejaculation will determine the quantity and taste of the ejaculate. The ejaculate of someone who ingests lots of red meat, caffeine, alcohol or cigarettes, may taste more intense than that of a non-smoking vegetarian. The most ejaculate you might encounter is a teaspoonful or so. You have several choices if you aren't crazy about ejaculate, but don't want to hurt anyone's feelings:
you can take it in your mouth and discreetly deposit into a nearby towel
as your partner approaches climax, withdraw and finish with your hand.
You can let your partner come on your body and admire the copious amounts of ejaculate
you can use a condom
When you're totally focused on giving head, it can be a lot of fun whether it's for power play (your partner's most precious asset is at your mercy), intimacy, or the pure fun of getting someone off. Remember, you should only be performing fellatio on somebody if you're really into it and are able to focus all of your energy on what you're doing. If you're staring at the clock, waiting for it to end, or worrying about the laundry in the dryer, you won't have a good time and your partner will be able to tell you're not into it, which can be distracting, too!
why do guys like girls to swallow their junk when they spaz??? Guys why do yall like blowjobs so much?? Its so gross when yall dont shave... such a turn off! Guys please answer!!!
Hey, from me I learned from my boyfriend, so not touching it 2 rough especially when your hands are dry because it can hurt them. Be gentle and ask him what does he like. It is ok 2 do that I've done it they would tell you what they want or what they like. When your giving head start off as a small tease kiss it, rub it, lick it, get into it. Then as you start moving your tongue up and down his penis, you can put your mouth on his head start sucking. Make your way down then as you start moving your head use your hands as well. Get into a rhythm, but always remember no TEETH lol it happens, but just b careful. Once you get the hang of it becomes easier, but another thing my boyfriend told me was 2 b nasty lol excuse my language, but when your doing it b a ho about it lol. Get out of that shy stage and do your thing. Moaning here and there is also a turn on.
Answer this Question: "Can you give me step-by-step advice on pleasuring a guy?"
Our members said the answers on this page also answer the following questions:
How to give good head to a guy, How to give a guy great head, How do you give a guy good head, How to give a guy good head, How to make out with a guy step by step, How do you give good head to a guy, How to give a guy a good head job, Pleasuring a guy, Step by step how to give head, How to give the best head to a guy, How to give head step by step, How to give a guy the best head, Step by step on giving head, Step by step giving head, Step by step on how to give head, Give good head guy
Popular questions related to Can you give me step-by-step advice on pleasuring a guy?
- how to jack off
- how to give a lap dance
- Any other ways to jack off?
- How to give a female an orgasim that she has never felt before?
- How do you finger a girl?
- what are good questions to ask a girl
- How do I finger a girl?
- What does a blow job feel like?
- how to give the best head
- How can he break my hymen without pain?
- Does fingering hurt and what does the girl do during it?
- Best way to give a guy head
- Good Masterbating Tips
- how to give the perfect blowjob!!
- I'm Playing 20 Questions With a guy, what to ask?
- different ways to masterbate
Love & Relationships Questions
Freshmen
How do you make out step by step?
How to give oral sex step-by-step?
Relationship matter
please give me advice.
Share this question
Copy and paste this code:It will display on your blog or site like this:
Can you give me step-by-step advice on pleasuring a guy?



Can you give me step-by-step advice on pleasuring a guy?
My boyfriend has given me head and all that..and well this is embarrassing but..I don't know how to touch a guy. haha lol, I know it sounds funny but well I actually I want to give him head and all but I don't know how to. ..can someone give me step...
advice..and how to pleasure a guy? please