im 13, im pregnant, and my family is upset with me, what do i do?

Please help me, im 13, im pregnant, my dad hates me, and my sister hates me. Should I get an abortion? How can I get my family to love me again?

You should consider adoption.
You cant make anyone love you (even though I'm sure they do because its your own family) - its something that gets created over time.

I would just be humble, ask for their love and help and that you can't do it without them. You need their support. And don't take any advice from anyone on the internet as to whether or not to have an abortion.

if your saying your dad and sis hate you because of your pregnancy then dont believe it
they are just disappointed and you might not be ready for a baby
you will need a lot of help and lots of preparation
sit down with your dad and sis and talk to them
share your feelings because if you decide to keep the baby then your going to need your dad and sis

good call everybody. may I be so bold as to ask why your family hates you so?

Well you can't just kill the baby. No one deserves life to be taken away from them, as I always say. It wasn't the baby's fault, it was yours and the baby shouldn't suffer for it. Give birth to the baby then put it up for adoption. You can tell your father that if he does hate you, that you've learned your lesson, and you won't do anything idiotic again. Remember it's not the baby's fault that your life is like this. You made the choices and now you have to deal with what's in front of you. Even at the risk of sounding cruel, I thought you should know what I think.

Consider Adoption. Iwant you to read this.
http://www.unbornjesus.com/English/Witnesses/Anonym.htm
http://www.lovematters.com/women.htm
http://www.prolife.com/EVERETT.html
please read them all.

*SIGH* fun mail me. we need 2 talk

I dont think ANYBODY HATES YOU !!

ok

WHY SHOULD I GO FOR ADOPTION?!!!

Because it gives the baby a chance at life - don't ruin that just because you made a bad choice. If you abort you'll regret it forever - people go through crazy depression because of that.

o.k, right now you just need to pin point everything that happened and find a way one by one how to make everything better... not everything is going to get better... and advice on the computer isn't really going to help anything that much... first of all I know for a fact your parents dont hate you... their just worried pissed... because there sorta shocked. but they dont hate you and second... dont ask for advice on what you should do about the baby, thats your decision. and I'll b pissed to know if you listened to any of these people. and really, dont listen to any of thoughs adoption ideas... there just all caught up in the Juno phase... its your desision. I just hope it works out for u.

get in adoption and about love just talk to them and let them know hey I know you doin love me the way you do my sister and it hurts me I want to be close to you and just tell him

*** WHY SHOULD I GO FOR ADOPTION?!!! ***
Read the links I posted. . . . If you would like more reason funmail me and I'll get you an 800 number or something.

Simply a Rose to brighten your day,
And maybe lessen the cares in your way;
And also, too, to help you to know,
That in knowing you, many others grow!

 
It all boils down to what is best for YOU and FOR THE BABY.

1. Abortion is an extreme choice. It kills the baby and may be a decision that may come to haunt you for the rest of your life. But that IS still an option that is available to you and is YOUR choice to make.

2. An alternative is to keep the baby and raise it yourself. Although that is an option, it may be a poor choice for both you and the baby. You are unprepared nor able to raise a child.

3. Another option is to allow your mother to adopt and/or raise the child, if she is willing and it doesn't place too great a burden on her.

4. A final option is to have the baby and place it up for adoption. There are lots of people who would love to adopt your baby. It would not only make other people happy, but would give your baby a chance at a secure and beautiful life that it might not otherwise be able to have.

Options 3 4 might not only be best for the baby but would also be best for you in that they would still allow you to be able to experience your teenage years as they are meant to be experienced and to mature without the extreme inconvenience that having to care for a child would place upon you.

Ted

How is it possible? Are you sure? Maybe you are simply too much scared. CHeck yourself with pregnancy test.

I went thru the same exact thing when I was your age. I got pregnant and my family was mad at me. I know its tough really tough but what I did was I talked it out with my family and over time everything began to settle down everything will be ok I promise you just got to give it a little bit of time.

I wouldnt do the whole adoption thing because your only 13 and you dont need another baby. but I think your family does love there just upset.

abortion, will make you feel even worse.
you are murdering a living breathing human.
don't do that.
your family.
just tell them you love them need them more than anything right now.

tell them you know that you made something wrong ask them for there love tell them you're feeling lonely and I don't thing that you have to keep this baby you are still young

(thanks)