How to deal with our differing views on abortion?

hi, umm...im 15 years old and im pretty sure im pregnant. I havent taken a test yet. but I let my boyfriend(17) know I have missed my periods. He has really mixed emotions about this. When he found out he was so excited. But now he wants me to get an abortion if I am pregnant. And im the kind of person that thinks thats wrong of me to do that. and he doesnt see why. hes all like they take the baby away no big deal. But it is... what do I do about this? I want to keep the baby.

well, bottom line: if you want to keep the baby, KEEP THE BABY.
it's really kinda your choice because if you want to keep it, there is nothing he can really do about it. lol.

I, personally, would not recomend an abortion, but I don't want to start a whole debate about abortion on this post, so I won't speak much of it.
Anyway, that is totally up to you.
You need to think this all through and think of what would be best in life for you, your boyfriend, and if you have this baby, him/her.

.. well if you want to keep it keep it but do remember you have options
Put it up for adopion ( you can still see the baby and/or choose it's parents )
abortion.. - side effects arent good though you'll have a badder chance of getting pregnant again plus you might regreat killing your first baby ( please dont start a hole debate about weather or not it's killing a baby in my opinion it is just because I wouldn't do it doesn't mean it's wrong to do there are some ecceptions on when I would have one ike if I was raped. )

Make your that you have help to raise the baby and do remember that it will take LOTS of money and your going to loose sleep with this deal but in the long run you'll make the best dission. oh yeah and you could put the baby up in a foster home then when you are ready to take care of it kinda like adopt your baby back in a way.
I hope I somewhat helped
~Erin~

to person above^^ I am personally pro-choice. you just said yourself that abortion means killing a baby. just because you were raped and got pregnant doesn't make you special, it is still the killing of a baby isn't it? (sorry for starting the debate ]': )

and to you 'blueeyed_katie ' I think the first thing you should do is take a pregnancy test before making any assumptions. if it turns out you ARE pregnant, I think you should have a really serious talk with your boyfriend, because believe it or not, it is as much his choice as it is yours. maybe he doesn't want to be a father at 15 years old. he has his whole life ahead of him. you have to think of him too, you know? if you really don't want to have an abortion, I saw give birth to it, and put it up for adoption though it might not be easy. good luck

First of all. There isnt much we can help you with right now. You dont even know if your pregnant or not. Before we get into a huge abortion debate.. and debate on having a child at a young age... TAKE A TEST! Dont get into the details of your situation- untill you actually know if your situation is the real deal!

Get a test. Take it-
GO FROM THERE!
The sooner you start prenatal care the better...

I think u're not ready enough to have a baby if you're pregnant for real.

but anyway it's by mistake and it happen.

The important here is not the DECISION but the SUPPORT for the baby. I'm sure that your boyfriend doesn't have the support to raise a baby because he still young too. The best way is to discuss it with your mom or dad, depending on how close are you to them.

I'm not saying that they have to take the decision for you but if they don't reject it and they give you their support it will be more easiest for you to take the right decision

Let him know exactly what an abortion does and what it does to your baby.

Personally, I'm against abortion. I tihnk it counts as murder. Because technically, the baby is already alive. So if you get an abortion, then you're killing it.

Personally, I'm against abortion. I tihnk it counts as murder. Because technically, the baby is already alive. So if you get an abortion, then you're killing it.

I'm not against abortion... but, if you're only 15, you probably aren't ready for a kid, that can really f*ck up your life. just give it up for adoption.