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My daughter won't spend time with me

Asked by debbie2008111 about 1 year ago, 10 answers.

Hya my daughter has just split up with her boyfriend about 2 weeks ago she was calling him everyday going to his house crying to him begging him I think you get the picture now she has stopped that and now she has gone all quiet wont smile wont eat she...

only spends time with her friends we make plans and she forgets and does something different I feel like im not important help !!!

Answered by tonyv on Sep 17, 2008, 06:59AM
22 answers

From Dr.Love
Frist how old is your daughter .

Answered by debbie2008111 on Sep 17, 2008, 07:07AM
3 answers

shes 18 but never acts like this its worrying

Answered by amanda42392 on Sep 17, 2008, 07:16AM
32 answers

Hi im a 16 year old and when I got out of a serious relationship I acted the same way and my parents were extremly worried didnt want me going out with friends because they thought I was doing bad things not all girls want to share stuff with there moms I just needed my friends at the time that understood what I was feeling just give her time and she will do just fine she will come out of this state

Answered by debbie2008111 on Sep 17, 2008, 07:29AM
3 answers

how do I get her to eat she isnt eating and when she does she is sick I dont know what to do with her she has been in a serious relationship before this one and never was like this but this time she is so depressed it doesnt show to anyone else but im her mum I feel like shes alryte with her friends and I feel like theres nothing I can say or do to make her happy

Answered by tonyv on Sep 17, 2008, 08:37AM
22 answers

From Dr.Love
Give her time and space. If you have a good relationship with her she'll talk to you about it. Give it time. Let her go out with her friends. She needs to talk it out to someone she trust.

Answered by funadvice on Sep 17, 2008, 08:55AM
53902 answers

She is heart broken and depressed.. leave her alone.. she will get over it.. for not eating.. well thats from the hollow empty pain she feels in her tummy.. like butterflies ecept not in a good way.. she will get over it.. give it some time..

Answered by zhen02 on Sep 17, 2008, 09:18AM
44 answers

just give her time...time is the most important thing that you can give to her...time process all imperfections..to clear her mind..to process thoughts..and to get things in proper perspectives...
just always be there..it's painful to be in her situation...just dont leave her and check her always..
hoping for her soon recovery.. happy ..

zhen_psyche143.. happy

Answered by funadvice on Sep 17, 2008, 10:08AM
53902 answers

not every gal wants to discuss relationship problems with moms. sometimes they just need to hang out with friends who understand her situation more, well, I'm not saying you don't. But you know how teens can be like. So don't feel unimportant. give her some space and time. she'll know when she needs u.