Im 14 and i want to give my 18 yo boyfriend hand or a bj

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So I met this 18 year old guy
And he thinks I've gone farther than I have
Well everyone thinks I've gone father but w.e
And he fingered me for my first time
And he put my hand on his penis and
I started to give him hand but I got nervous and
Didnt...

finish and he just put it back in
And I dont want to make a fool out of myself
So I need to know how to give hand or head (bj)
Or both
Because I know he wants both
And hes not even my boyfriend
It was just a hokup but I want to make him ahppy

My advice is...dont do it. If its a hookup and you already started doing those favors then your only going to regret it.
Besides your only 14 and they are a lot of diseases out their who knows he might have an STD!?! And you dont want that?
Right now slowly move urself away from him right now you are naive (no offense) about sex ed. when you find the RIGHT boy then you can do whatevr you like in a safe healthy way! Good Luck!

HEEELP PLEASE

How about you use your brain and DON'T DO ANYTHING WITH HIM. I know it's only a hookup you want, but feelings always get involved no matter how many times you tell yourself they won't.

Besides, he has no interest in you now that he knows he can get you to do things... except to use you when he pleases.

Have some respect for yourself and set some standards.

hes already using me..
like I basically half gave him hand and then he asked me fore head and I was liek noo haah but I want to make him happy because I didnt do it last time

You're only going to make him physically happy. Who cares if it pisses him off, he's a jerk for using you and you don't seem to care much! You can't keep letting it happen. Forget about what mistakes you've already made with him, and see that there are sooo many guys out there... ones that actually WON'T use you. Please. You're only 14... take advice from someone who is older and has been through what you haven't yet. You can't keep letting him use you. Move on.

Honey, you are 14 he's 18! Think about it, it's considered statutory rape, he CAN go to jail considering that you are only 14 years old, it would be a FELONY he would have that on his record for the rest of his life, not to mention that he would have to register as a sex offender. TRUST me I've been there the only difference was that I was 16 so it was considered consential he only got a misdemenor a huge fine.
Also if it's just a hook-up who cares about what he thinks?? Atleast save yourself for someone that you truely care about, not someone that you just want to make happy because they THINK that you've been further then you really have! if you KNOW he's using you why would you put yourself through that??? The right guy will come along one day, you're 14 you've got a WHOLE lifetime ahead of you! (=

ohhh boy. listen to the adults here. that 18 year old is bad news. way too old for you - and the fact hes trying to scam with you a 14 year old is all the proof you need.
but if you still want to HJ or BJ him then I guess no one is going to stop you and you might as well do it right so just google it and find some porn on streaming video
and if he wants more, im sure you can find some instruction on the internet as well.
MAKE HIM USE A CONDOM!!!

Okay so if you definatly want you im not going to spend 1 hour talking you out of it...I suggest you go onto a website called boysfood.com it will show you everything you need to know (its a FREE porn site) just type in bj (blowjob ) or hand job, the people who preform them are pretty good at it , they should show you all you need...GOOD luck

knock knock... hm jus as I thwt... that HEAD OF URZ IS EMPY!!!

hez using u!! do what makes you happy

THATSNOT F*%@$% TRUE OK DOES HE REALLY LIKE YOU DO YOU LIKE HIM IF YA DO AND THIS IS A RELATION SHIP THAT YA ARE TALKING VERY SERIOUS THEN YEA YA COULD DO THAT BECUASE HES YOU HUSBAND AND your HIS WIFEY...BUT IF YA JUST FOOLING AROUND THAN THATS A DIFFERENT STORY WHY BECUASE HE COULD BE USING YOU..JUST MAKE SURE YOUR SURE BECAUSE ITS your DESICION..ALLRIGHT. BE CAREFUL

I have the same problem with the blowjob thing!! Im 14 and dating an 18 yaer old!! I dont know what to do when givin a blowjob ethier!!

he is using you get out of that relationshiop now

Look darling think about
look at all thease comments people ate telling you dere all true
your 2 young 4 him he jusy using
cm on ure 14 years old his 18
Get out of relationship now
before its 2 late
you don't 2 do something you will rerget do you?
because thease days teenagers get in allot of trouble
and killed, raped
Not gd
4 ure safty get out Now!!!
you have uree all life 2 have a boyfriend and do that
wid som1 you truly love
not sum cute guy you just found on street
because that not love
dere gut ure wid is just a player
his playing you...

GOOD LUCK
be storong
be postive
lasty follow ure heart
do you really want to do this
is he ure soul mate
or perfect match
think before you do something!!!

your a dumbhoe do it and show him how bad you r at it because I dont know how lolol and catch a disease ya dirty skank

I think you are being very silly. you are doing something that you dont really want 2 do just to make him happy, and he is not even your boyfriend. he is just using you 2 get what he wants and I agree with most of the people here.