What if my man is having a baby with another girl?

what should I do? I have no idea!!! my man just found out hes going to have a kid and he didnt want me to find out but I did end up finding out! im sooo hurt now! I cant stand that chick when I see her imma mess her up bad!!! what do I do with him?...

do I leave him after a year and a half? help! -tianna

Look, chances are that she may not even know about you, so there is no reason to go attacking her, plus you could go to jail for murder if she loses her fetus.
I would leave him. I know it may be difficult to do because you love him, but if you stay with him, he will probably just keep cheating on you. Get out of the relationship now... just cut him off completely. Don't call him or even answer the phone when he calls you. Just know that you are better than anyone who would cheat on you.

Leave him, If he did it once he'll do it again And who ever he ends up with he will do it to them.

Leave him. I was married to a guy that got a girl pregnant when I was deployed overseas. I know what your going through, your young youll find someone else. Look at it like at least that skum didnt get you pregnant, and then you would be stuck with him the rest of your life because of a child!

leave him, if he did this then he obviously doesnt love you!

definately- leave him, and never look back.
he's obviously not MATURE enough to be in a relationship.
trust is a foundation block for any relationship.
he can't be trusted.
leave him

dont stay with him just because you were with him for a long time he didnt worry about it when he got another chick pregnant!

Leave him. Once a cheater always a cheater. Besides that he obviously isn't very bright for not using some protection. So ask yourself do you want to be with not only a cheater but a dumb @ss?

*Melinda*

You know what I would be leaving singing one of my favorite songs by snoop dogg
B*%@h I'm Gooonnne!!!

find yourself a real man