He broke my heart! why do I still love him? please reply!! it means a lot to me!!

my b/f just broke up with me. I can not get him off my mind. you name it it reminds me of him. its like really bring my life on a downward spiral. he didnt even do it to my face! he wrote me a letter! he hasnt said anything or even looked at me! this is what the letter said:
morgan,
I am really sorry I couldnt say this to your face because I know how you and how you feel bout me but im going thru a really rough time rite now my baseball sucks (hes a baseball player, he lives for it) and my house and just everything. and I just feel that im not showing or giving you the attention you deserve. we never really talk.which is b/c of baseball we never see each other and I wont be able to see you over the summer and the truth is that I got so much going on that I dont want a girlfriend. its nuthin against you, im not mad, is nuthin you done its just that my life is so fucke dup right now and how you deserve to love someone that will be there for you at all times. I just want to be friends. please dont be mad at me.im just so stressed that you dont know what has went thru my mind. you cant imagine what I want to do to myself sumtimes.I just want to get over that feeling about myself before I have feelings for someone else. im so sorry. I love you.
brian

the thing is he lied a lot in the letter. baseball stops june 10th . I wud get to see him I got to see and talk to him constantly is he just making excuses or is he for real? please reply because its killin me. I need to hear from some one else that is wasnt just bein a jerk. please I still love him but I dont want to anymore. how do I get over him?

Maybe some of his letter was a white lie and maybe not. You know him better than anyone here. It sounds like he is just too stressed out to have a girlfriend right now. You should respect that. Of course you are allowed to still have feelings for him. Maybe down the line you two will get back together, you never know! But for now just leave him alone and focus on other things. I'm sure they're are plenty of other things to focus on. School, your favorite hobby, hanging out with friends... Just busy yourself with something else. ( oh and... Boys are dumb.. throw rocks at them! )

Girl, do not feel bad. Today I just broke up with my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years and it would of been 3 this october. Anyways, this guy sounds like he's full of it. I believe he's already with someone else. What makes me mad about the situation is he didn't have the balls to tell you in person (what a a-hole). Sometimes it's hard especially if you're in love. I know I might shed a tear later but I know I will someone better. But one thing I learned is that guys get over girls faster when the relationship is over. So basically don't stress over someone who's full of it, trust me I know.

Hey girl I think we have a lot in common my ex b/f name was brian to brian gibbs and he played baseball to and we broke up because he tok me some where and he saw some girls there and his friends and he totally ignored me and I left I was hurt really bad 2 and I still have feelings for him but there going away it just takes a lot of time

hey
listen dont let him get to you I was in the same boat as you a year ago and it may hurt now and you cant stop thinking about him but you what wait just a little he is going to go out their and think their is something better out there and when he see's you are the best thing he will come back cring and you will already found someone who makes you smile and never cry be strong I promise it will get better

it takes time chick I been trying for 3 years to break free from a man who I love so very much yet treats me bad he really knows how to play with my emotions and play mind games.. when I back off he gets closer when I let him close he backs off.. he lives a life full of secrets.. my only answer to you is that all men are the same they can never state the truth just find wimpish excuses and run off.. so typical!! keep your chin up I know its hard but try not to show him how much he hurts you cause then he will have you where he wants you x

u know what? if it is an excuse because he dont want you anymore 4get him he is not deserving your love..there's more than him..hu will love you so much and God has plan 4 that..just put in your mind that everything happen to us has a reason just wait the ryt guy 4 u..love can wait..if you failed 2day try 2 stand up and be brave enough because every struggle there is hope if we do believe..ok? but if it is real he has the ryt to do that..bcoz it myt burden to him bcoz he cant be a perfect b/f 4 u..and maybe someday time will come there will be a good place and the ryt time 4 both of you..ryt?? so just be strong and be happy..ok??/

ya my girlfriend told me on im...it really made me mad 2

4get the boy and eat a cookie! LOL! just try dating some 1 else sweet heart I feel so bad 4 you because, itz (yup) happened 2 me (sad face) it'll B OK, Cya
~sabina~

well, maybe he's gay? I mean, that would explain why he broke up with you, AND lied about why he did. (haha. still love him now? lol. okay, I'll serioulsy answer this question now. =] )
okay, well he was a jerk. im sure there's other guys who are sweeter, hotter, and overall, better than him. like, a year ago I thought there was nobody at my school who was hot but then guess what? we had 3 german boys stay at our house over the summer. I ended up going out with one of them, (to this day I still think hes the second hottest guy I've ever met, second to my current boyfriend, whos first, of course. trust me, you dont know hot till you've seen my hunk. lol), We only went out for 5 months because the whole long-distance-relationship thing. we're still really good friends though. and if this (gay =P )guy who you 'still love' wants to come back to you. nomatter how temping it might be DONT go back. chances are you'll go through the same thing again with this guy. no matter how much they say it, they haven't changed. I mean, there is the one-in-a-million chance he has, but make him prove it to you. he probably wont be able to, and you'll know you made the right decision in the end. good luck!

hey,im twyla (13)..I know how you feel im dealing with it ez think it this way nvr frown because someone else can be falling in love with your smile.and he is a jerk for not talking it out with u..guyz are dumb.hey put on sum nice clothes and treat urself to a nice cold drink at your favorite bar and smile baby like theres no tmrw..your soo worth it.

its all gud dont even cry for him he was no gud to break ya heart any sorry just keep ya head up get over him and find someone new

Dear Morgan
I had a situation like yours in 16 and I dated the love of my life named jerod for 3 years. I was so in love with him and I didnt no whatd I do without him. he was my first everything and promised he would marry me. But after the last couple of monthes he was acting funny, he wasnt happy with our realationship and I found out he was cheating on me. I was depressed for 6 monthes and I prayed went to church and thought would go to a mental home. But I made it through. Things have gotten better for me I will always miss him and love him and I would forgive him if he ever wanted me back. But what I did to realize I could live without him was I changed my number and havent talked to him since my birthday in june. thing are getting better and easier and time does tell. I hope everything goes good with you. Be strong its so hard but it worked for me.
Good luck and im sorry men treat women like crap.