He broke my heart! why do i still love him? please reply!! it mea

my b/f just broke up with me. I can not get him off my mind. you name it it reminds me of him. its like really bring my life on a downward spiral. he didnt even do it to my face! he wrote me a letter! he hasnt said anything or even looked at me! this is...

what the letter said:
morgan,
I am really sorry I couldnt say this to your face because I know how you and how you feel bout me but im going thru a really rough time rite now my baseball sucks (hes a baseball player, he lives for it) and my house and just everything. and I just feel that im not showing or giving you the attention you deserve. we never really talk.which is b/c of baseball we never see each other and I wont be able to see you over the summer and the truth is that I got so much going on that I dont want a girlfriend. its nuthin against you, im not mad, is nuthin you done its just that my life is so fucke dup right now and how you deserve to love someone that will be there for you at all times. I just want to be friends. please dont be mad at me.im just so stressed that you dont know what has went thru my mind. you cant imagine what I want to do to myself sumtimes.I just want to get over that feeling about myself before I have feelings for someone else. im so sorry. I love you.
brian

the thing is he lied a lot in the letter. baseball stops june 10th . I wud get to see him I got to see and talk to him constantly is he just making excuses or is he for real? please reply because its killin me. I need to hear from some one else that is wasnt just bein a jerk. please I still love him but I dont want to anymore. how do I get over him?

Maybe some of his letter was a white lie and maybe not. You know him better than anyone here. It sounds like he is just too stressed out to have a girlfriend right now. You should respect that. Of course you are allowed to still have feelings for him. Maybe down the line you two will get back together, you never know! But for now just leave him alone and focus on other things. I'm sure they're are plenty of other things to focus on. School, your favorite hobby, hanging out with friends... Just busy yourself with something else. ( oh and... Boys are dumb.. throw rocks at them! )

Girl, do not feel bad. Today I just broke up with my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years and it would of been 3 this october. Anyways, this guy sounds like he's full of it. I believe he's already with someone else. What makes me mad about the situation is he didn't have the balls to tell you in person (what a a-hole). Sometimes it's hard especially if you're in love. I know I might shed a tear later but I know I will someone better. But one thing I learned is that guys get over girls faster when the relationship is over. So basically don't stress over someone who's full of it, trust me I know.

Hey girl i think we have a lot in common my ex b/f name was brian to brian gibbs and he played baseball to and we broke up because he tok me some where and he saw some girls there and his friends and he totally ignored me and i left i was hurt really bad 2 and i still have feelings for him but there going away it just takes alot of time

hey
listen dont let him get to you i was in the same boat as you a year ago and it may hurt now and you cant stop thinking about him but you what wait just a little he is going to go out thier and think their is something better out there and when he see's you are the best thing he will come back cring and you will already found someone who makes you smile and never cry be strong i promise it will get better

it takes time chick i been trying for 3 years to break free from a man who i love so very much yet treats me bad he really knows how to play with my emotions and play mind games.. when i back off he gets closer when i let him close he backs off.. he lives a life full of secrets.. my only answer to u is that all men are the same they can never state the truth just find wimpish excuses n run off.. so typical!! keep your chin up i know its hard but try not to show him how much he hurts u cause then he will have u where he wants u x

u know wat? if it is an excuse coz he dont want u anymore 4get him he is not deserving ur love..there's more than him..hu will love u so much and God has plan 4 dat..just put in ur mind dat everything happen to us has a reason just wait the ryt guy 4 u..love can wait..if u failed 2day try 2 stand up and be brave enough coz every struggle there is hope if we do believe..ok? but if it is real he has the ryt to do dat..bcoz it myt burden to him bcoz he cant be a perfect b/f 4 u..and maybe someday time will come there will be a good place and the ryt time 4 both of you..ryt?? so just be strong and be happy..ok??/

ya my gf told me on im...it rly made me mad 2

well, maybe he's gay? i mean, that would explain why he broke up with you, AND lied about why he did. (haha. still love him now? lol. okay, i'll serioulsy answer this question now. =] )
okay, well he was a jerk. im sure there's other guys who are sweeter, hotter, and overall, better than him. like, a year ago i thought there was nobody at my school who was hot but then guess what? we had 3 german boys stay at our house over the summer. i ended up going out with one of them, (to this day i still think hes the second hottest guy i've ever met, second to my current bf, whos first, of course. trust me, you dont know hot till you've seen my hunk. lol), We only went out for 5 months because the whole long-distance-relationship thing. we're still really good friends though. and if this (gay =P )guy who you 'still love' wants to come back to you. nomatter how temping it might be DONT go back. chances are you'll go through the same thing again with this guy. no matter how much they say it, they haven't changed. i mean, there is the one-in-a-million chance he has, but make him prove it to you. he probably wont be able to, and you'll know you made the right decision in the end. good luck!

hey,im twyla (13)..I know how you feel im dealing with it ez think it this way nvr frown because someone else can be falling in love with your smile.and he is a jerk for not talking it out with u..guyz are dumb.hey put on sum nice clothes and treat urself to a nice cold drink at your favorite bar and smile baby like theres no tmrw..your soo worth it.

its all gud dont even cry for him he was no gud to break ya heart any sorry just keep ya head up get over him and find someone new

Dear Morgan
I had a situation like yours in 16 and I dated the love of my life named jerod for 3 years. I was so in love with him and I didnt no whatd I do without him. he was my first everything and promised he would marry me. But after the last couple of monthes he was acting funny, he wasnt happy with our realationship and I found out he was cheating on me. I was depressed for 6 monthes and I prayed went to church and thought would go to a mental home. But I made it through. Things have gotten better for me I will always miss him and love him and I would forgive him if he ever wanted me back. But what I did to realize I could live without him was I changed my number and havent talked to him since my birthday in june. thing are getting better and easier and time does tell. I hope everything goes good with you. Be strong its so hard but it worked for me.
Good luck and im sorry men treat women like crap.

I went threw the same thing with my ex...when we broke up it was hell, I cried and I was always depressed. he told me he thought he wasn't gay after a month of dating but we were friends for a year before dating so even before dating I still cared for the kid. but I learned theres always someone who is going to break your heart and your supposed to better yourselff from all the past relationship, if it was meant to be then eventually it'll happen. it's ok to love care and cherish someone but if they want to go LET THEM you can't make someone love you, it only human nature.

tell him how you feel. But not just yet. Ask him how he feels then Tell em how you feel. Then if thingz dont work. Try to get a new boyfriend and that will definitly take your mind off him.

Heyahh::

I know how you are feeling, really. I know people have probaly said this to you and you can't understand how anyone could feel like that, but I really really do know how you feel. I am going through the same thing right know and I love this guy and probaly always will but I broke my heart and although he did that I still love him, and everything reminds me of him. Even though he wants me to give him another chance, I really do want to deep down, but he broke my heart once, and will probaly do it again.

Don't let them win, be strong and show him just what he gave up. Every girl goes through it at one point and it hurts real bad, but be strong.

Hop I could help. x.x.x.x

hey, I knew how it feels, the thing is my boyfriend broke up with me last monday. I have lost 10 pounds in 2 days. I cant eat anything. I cant get him out of my head. and he likes another girl. I just wanted to let you know that you arent the only one who is hurting. what he did to you was wrong. and someday you will forgive him but the thing is will you forget him. I cant forgive or forget. and I do know because I still love him (the guy who didnt just brake up with me he killed me.) if he did lie to you then he isnt going to stop. he hits you once, he'll hit you again. lie to you once he'll lie again. everyone is telling me that braking up is part of life. it hurts like hell. but one day youll find a guy who would give his life for you...I wish you luck...we both hurt, just do one thing dont let him kill you inside.
take everything that reminds you of him. pack it in a box and put it in your closet. give yourself a week to cry. go have fun with friends. talk it out, write it down. do something that you love to do... everyone gets hurts its how you handle the pain.

I hope this helped a little..

...but remember I know how you feel..and there are others out there. that know the pain too. and there are others for you.

kkk

hey girl. I am in the same boat..well I broke up with my boyfriend and made a huge mistake and dated this one guy for one day and realized that he wasnt the one for me so I broke up with him. I told my ex-boyfriend that I was sorry and that was the biggest mistake I have ever had. I am beggin for him back and I have no idea what to do. we have been going out for a very long time. last night at church we made out. we talked on the phone after church. I asked him why wont he take me back and he said you have me we are just on a break right now. well I went to the ballfiend and I was calling him over and over again because I wanted him to come to my house before we went to the ballfield. well I get over there and I see his truck so I walk over there to him. I tried to give him a hug and all he says is leave me alone. and then he walked away with another girl which is supposed to be my best friend. I couldnt help but cry my eyes out. I went and sat in my car. well I was sitting there with another friend and they walked by my car, stopped right in front of it, and kissed. of course I cried again. I need help to so when you find out what to do tell me please. hope things work out between yall. /3

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