Guy friend ignored me..now i have a boyfriend and hes talking to m

This guy and I were good friends. He recently started
ignoring me(I suspect its because he was too interested in
hanging out with his girlfriend). I asked him if I had
done anything wrong to get him from talking to me but he
said I had done nothing...

which confused me. We haven't
associated with each other in months.

Recently I just got myself a new boyfriend and as soon as
I did the other guy was talking to me again. He was
telling me that his relationship with his girlfriend is
going down hill,that they are fighting all the time,and that he needed space from her to heal.

Why is he telling me this now when he hasn't associated with me in months??
Can someone tell me whats going on here? I am confused.

jealousy will make a guy do anything. There are so many sayings that come into play here...
1) People want what they can't have. - You are suddenly off the list which makes you a challeneg, or a trophy. If he can get you back around his finger, his confidence will go through the roof.
2) You never know what you have until it is gone. - He realizes his loss through another mans gain, no he is pining to get you back in his life.
3) The grass isn't always greener on the other side. - He goofed up and it took him this long to realize. Now, you are attached to someone else, so he doesn't have the luxury of waiting to talk to you, it is do or die in his eyes.

My advice is, be courteous to him and heck even chat about stuff. Avoid chatting about would could have been or remember that time we _______ (insert fond romantic memory here) ... this opens up old wounds and will make you vulnerable. Stick with your new man... he hasn't ignored you and hadn't srewed up his first chance yet.

he needed a pillow to lean on, a soft comfortable one... which is why after ages he came back to u, in the name of friendship x

guys will always think women are gonna always be there for them regardless what they do for them.. u had a good friendship with him, but he saw another girl ( even though it was his girlfriend ) as more important that ur friendship.. then after a few months, when the girl no longer deemed important he thought... Oh yea i got a reaaaaaaaal good freinds called Chrissy, lets talk her for a while, and then when i get another girlfriend then ill disappear again.. x

If i were u, ask him whats more important, ur friendship, (if so then ask him why when he's got a girlfriend u seem to be non-existant to him..) or his girlfriends x