How to get my close friend back?

ok let me break this down to you lol, and this is only my opinion, girls and guys once reach a certain age guys and wemon cannot be friends to a certain degree because the oppisite sex usuually attracts now thats not in all cases, but then there is rumors jelousy and others come into play. so you also have to consider if his wife is ok with her husband talking to another women or hanging out with her . why if a man or women is married then he should find everything including friendship in his relationship, now to go to the extreme of never speaking to you I think is toatally wrong because males and females everyday has to react with each other cause heck part of life, friendship with oppisite sex is hard usually because of the cheating and emotions but its not like he spends any time with you you know , maybe his girl has a little bit of controlling side to her and gets upset and peed off at him if he does, caint really tell you what to do but somone needs to talk to him and his wife because if there shutting off people because there married and feel like there all happy there wrong,theyll need friends as well nme and my wife kicked all our friends to the curb when we got married but soon after we wanted friends, now my wife can have guy friends but noone I dont know or get to know she tells me she doesnt want anything to do with guys except me, thats her she doesnt tell me what to do because if I was to ask you is this normal of him to aqct this way you would probably say no! so apparently its her but I wish you the best of luck ok