Girlfriend got pregnant by fingering..please help..

my girlfriend had her last period on 16 Dec.. then I visited her around 20 Jan.. that day, I fingered her.. while fingering for once, I touched my genitals, and then fingered her a lot.. I m sure, that I haven't masturbated that time.. in fact I have...

never masturbated in front of her.. I m not sure of precum.. but I think, I was dry for myself at that time..
at that time she said, that she was expecting her period.. after that incident, her periods disappeared.. now it is 16th Feb.. almost 2 months since her last period.. and she is not having signs of any period now..

now, it has got very dark around her nipples.. also, she is having very frequent urination..in fact 18-25 a day..she also has feeling of nausea and tiredness..

I cant believe, that it is possible.. but yes, she has no period since 2 months.. and it is abt 25 days since that incident..still no periods.. also, she has got very signs of pregnancy.. we both are very worried and afraid now.. please help, what we shud do now..

well, the only way that she wud become pregnant from fingering is if you had sperm on your fingers, ova than that she will not be pregnant! some girls can miss a lot of periods and that makes them feel sick. go see a doctor or get a pregnancy test! but I dont fink she will be pregnant unless you mastabated

yes.. I know abt that.. but she has got very signs of pregnancy.. alongwith the missed period, she has got very dark around nipples now, and very frequent urination.. also nausea.. and tiredness..

well I wud say go to a doc or get a pregnancy test. it duz sound like she is pregnant but it is hard to imagean how .

I thought sperm dies once it hits oxygen

No bitburger it doesn't! That's HIV or AIDS germs! you can get pregnant from mutual masturbation! Because if sperm or precum gets in vagina sperm just wiggles on in !

ever thought of maybe her period came late itself?
or there is the other side that if she IS pregnant and you havent had intercourse with her she may be cheating...just a thought

also getting a bit of precum on your fingers and then sliding them in has a very very small chance of her getting pregnant, since precum sperm (which has very small amounts of actual sperm cells) has been outside the normal body temp and thus killing of a load of them before actually inserting the fingers, also take in mind that it would have probably been wiped of the labia before actually entering...

Is there a reason she hasnt taken a pregnancy test yet?

Hmm, you and your girlfriend should see the doctor and yes, it does sound like she's pregnant.
If you didn't master bate or have intercourse, then its not likely you got sperm on your fingers. I agree with the person above that she could be cheating on you. I hate to burst your bubble though. See the doctor anyway.

It's close to 35 days from the last time you saw here, she should have ovulated prior to that, and since you didn't see her during that time and if she is pregnant it means she cheated on you, get a pregnancy test and paternity test. Vaginal intercourse is the only way to get pregnant, the chances of what you did are so minuscule its ridiculous.

It's close to 35 days from the last time you saw here, she should have ovulated prior to that, and since you didn't see her during that time and if she is pregnant it means she cheated on you, get a pregnancy test and paternity test. Vaginal intercourse is the only way to get pregnant, the chances of what you did are so minuscule its ridiculous.

Read it over again. And for sure you didn't get her pregnant if she is. Here is why:

1) You need millions of sperm to be able to become pregnant (only one needs to fertilize). Only 1 in 20000 make it even past the uterus after ejaculation, read the process about how birth takes place. Even if you had cum on your fingers, it would not have been at its most viable, meaning it was outside your body, granted it would not instantly die but it would have made whatever sperm you had basically worthless. Secondly I'm guessing since you didn't ejaculate you had no sperm on your hand so therefore, the chances of any sperm being on your fingers is slim to none and even if you did it wasn't enough to get her pregnant.

2) The window of opportunity to become pregnant is anywhere from 24 to 72 hours meaning when she ovulates, that is 14 prior to her next period or 14 to 16 days from her last period. That being said, you said she had her last period on Dec. 16th making her optimal time for ovulation at the beginning of Jan at latest the 5th or 6th. So sex, meaning vaginal intercourse with no protection and full ejaculation inside, not fingering, must have occurred at that time. At the time you visited her on the 20th, the egg would have been long dead and gone and she would be either beginning or midway through her period. That being said even at that point if you ejaculated inside her full on it would still be impossible for pregnancy to occur because her internal system has not released an egg for the sperm to find.

3) Sperm are very fragile and vagina's are acidic 90 percent of the time making any sperm contact die within 6 hours. The only time that sperm can live up to 5 days (average 3) inside the uterine canal is during ovulation when the cervical mucus is egg like and watery, it allows the sperm to be nourished and swim easily finding the egg. At all other times the vagina is not naturally wet and is dry and acidic making pregnancy slim to none.

4) Finally the issue of precum. Precum comes from the Cowpers gland, higher up and away from the scrotum that produces semen. Precum DOES NOT contain sperm, but can PICK UP sperm as it travels down the urethra. Precum serves as a natural lubricant and also stabilizes the acid that is left inside your urethra when you urinate. It basically clears the way for the sperm so that they can travel and not die on the way out (on average 25 percent of sperm come out non-viable meaning dead or deformed, hence God giving us close to 300 mill per ejaculate, increase the odds of pregnancy happening). The only way that your precum could have had sperm in it was if you had ejaculated prior to seeing her and not urinating. When you urinate it flushes out sperm from your urethra, but if you don't then there is a chance not for sure that sperm can be picked up. But even then it is an acidic (urine) mixture of sperm that at most range in the thousands not millions. See part 1 and 3 again showing how even this scenario is impossible to get her pregnant.

So in conclusion, why haven't you gotten a pregnancy test to confirm your suspicions and two if she is pregnant IT IS NOT BECAUSE OF YOU. Get a pregnancy test asap as well as a paternity test and kick your girlfriend to the curb.

This is the only answer you need to read, research this with science and medical facts like I have and you'll see that I am right. Also I've done the exact same thing as you 5 times, shame on me, but I have hence my knowledge and guess what the answer has always been the same: THE ONLY WAY TO GET PREGNANT IS UNPROTECTED VAGINAL INTERCOURSE NEAR OR DURING OVULATION!!

So relax.

sperm can live anywhere from 3 to 5 days out side of the human body.

wait can you get pregnant from urself???

I had some sessions like that before... shes tpp missed her period for 2 months... but by neary 3months she got her period... but she say iz v painful... from this I had to sae.. go and check with a certified docs... and secondly perhaps.. just perhaps.. she been thinkin bout this.. too stress till the period came late... yes. stress does make your period late.. im no doctor but it happen to my girlfriend before. so I hope it helps..

You are stupid,she is pregnant from the guy she fucked you moron...