Getting fingered

I really want to get fingered. but doesnt it hurt??? and ew it seems kinda gross for the guy.. I mean like once he takes his finger out.. id feel sorry for him.. lol I need guy advice.. what do you think?? do you like it? AND girl.. doesnt it hurt? HELP

hey im a guy..and its not gross..its actually very nice..u should let him eat you while hes at it...

I'm a chick who has been you know because I dont think guys can answer the question does it hurt cause they have penises ... what you call it (this is really a grss topic here) and it doesnt really hurt if the guy is gentle. If you are a virgin it might sting a little (hymen breaking) but if he is gentle and his nails are short.. then no... its actually good.

It doesn't hurt. Unless he has sharp fingernails. And unless you are not lubricated(either by your own lube or by artificial)
Bring out the nail file and make him file em! Also make sure he washes his hands before. Have a towel handy.

what do you do while getting fingered?

yea like what do u do while getting fingered?
it seems like it would be really awkward

to find out if it hurts, do it yourself.
you'll found out it feels really nice.. its not bad after he pulls his finger off. some guys lick their fingers, some wash their hands, or just wipe them on something. it'll hurt if its your first time.. but just do it yourself a few times to get used to it.

well it doesnt really hurt. when I first got fingered. it was felt good. I really liked it. the second time it was better. the third wasnt the best. all he did was stick his finger up inside of me. and that doesnt feel the best. they have to move there hand around you a little. I have only been fingered 3 times by guys. I like it so when I get bored on some days I finger myself.

no it doesnt hurt

try it on urself and when gettin fingered just moan and rub your breasts. it will turn the guy on more.

okay well.

One, It doesn't hurt.
Two, You dont bleed.
most girls dont.

Its wonderful.
Try it3

no. doesnt hurt at all. its fuuun.but dont try to finger urself. its gross! eww. lol

yeah. its supposed to happen. but not all the time I guess. why dont you just clean urself up in the bathroom before doing stuff with your boyfriend, but its normal if you get wet before you get fingered. its usually because you feel horny, then you get wet. so its okay. it is gross when you think about it. but its normal.
hope that helps :D

it doesnt hurt. my boyfriend fingers me all the time it feels nothing but good. laying down, standing up, sitting w.e it feels good. but you should try it yourself to see if you like it, and then if you like it, go for it.

its dosent hurt . if your not eady dont worry

it feels amazing,
I thiink,
I thought it was kinda weird at first.
you might think so too, but you will get used to it.
My boyfriend loves doing it.
he is always like,
'can I play with you P*ssy(:'
Baha.

no actually it is fun

hey sweetie getting fingered does not hurt at all. And its not gross for a guy unless you stink LOL its naturally not gross you should not be ashamed of it everybody does it and if you are not ready to get fingered say it don't be afraid to stand your ground make sure your comfy so you and him can have fun. !!! Xoxoxoxo. Christiana

yeah she is right and if your having your boyfriend over just shower well before he comes and it wont stink. trust me he will like it and have fun dont be afraid to ask for him to do something like finger you it may seem awkward but if you cute about it its a turn on

it dont hurt it feells so amazingif the guy a a gental touch then it wotn hurt but if his fingernails are really long than ewww ahhh.

I wouldn't know ! lol I've never been fingered tooo scared I don't know why!

ok...getting fingered can hurt if:

-he has long fingernails
-he jams a finger up you all of a sudden
-you're not wet yet
-you're still a virgin and have not had your cherry popped

being wet before fingering usually happens because you're in the mood. he's probably been feeling you and kissing you before actually going in with the fingers..so you should get good and wet. if you think he's not to educated on what happens when a girl gets in the mood, then just tell him you're wet. if he asks what that means, tell him it means he's made you want him very badly and thta's how you're body is responding to him. have him feel around inside of you...not just go in and out.

girls---you can do whatever you want. this time is for you. sounds and smiles are good because they let your fella know that you like what he's doing. if you want, you can pleasure him as he's doing you...but honestly, just lay back and let him know when you're having a good time.

also...you don't smell. if you have good hygiene (shower and wash every day) you're fine. guys find you and your wetness to be a huge turn on. they love it. and they'll do anything to keep you wet.