Should i go watch this amazing guy sing?

hi my friend,thanks for the adivce,this guy is amazing,and he sure knows how to talk to me the right way,but I have been hurt a lot,and I was raised not to go after a guy,that the way my parents brought me up,but we have been talking on line for three...

days stright,and he wants me to come watch him sing,yes hes a rock singer,he knows the good moves,and he left me his numember,so we have talk a couple time on the phone,im just scard of being hurt again,he has notice that im a good gorl,a sweet women,I dont think hes use to that,when I say come back saying some nice,he told me,see?your sweet!that what he said the other day,from here im not sure what to do,what do you think?Adriana

Dear adriana,
From your previous posts it says you are married and have a family. Have you divorced? Why are you looking to start a relationship? It sounds like your heading for trouble. You have only spoke for 3 days and he's a rock singer in a band...well I am assuming you are on the short list of a very long list of acquaintance's. Are you just getting out of a relationship? A marriage? I think we need some clarifications.
Sue...good luck

I would be pretty careful about guys you met online to start with...but seriously a Rock Star...probably a local rock band! Not all are, but I would bet that he's just a player, looking for a sweet girl to corrupt! Go to your local church, join some groups and meet a nice guy there, much safer! In general if your serious about a relationship that will last, don't pick the type of guys all girls go for...tatoo's, long hair, big muscles, rich...they have big ego's and little ability to commit. Shot for the guys just below that on the social hierarchy, you know the type, maybe funny sense of humor, has a steady job, loves dogs, does volunteer work. Which brings up another thought...what do you like...find out where you can do volunteer work for what you like...meet a nice guy there! And in these situations...its OK to be the one to ask a guy out...as I mentioned in another post, guys like that!