What if it just won't go in?

But if your trying to have sex...and everytime he sticks it in...it hurts and you push him back...and even if your letting it go in..it just wont go in..back or front...what am I doing wrong?

you're not opening your legs enough maybe ?

If it hurts, you can't be aroused. If you're not aroused, there's going to be no natural lubrication. Your boyfriend needs to take more time with you or maybe you're just not ready for sex yet.

lube it up! but not hand lotion or oil, anyhting that is iol-based because it can break down the latex in the condoms and make them not strong enough. but definately get some lube. you don't have to be a certain age to get it, and it makes the process sooo much easier

umm, I forgot what it was called but dont have sex until both of you are all worked up. you might be anxious about it, so you actually tighten up. but if both of you, just like play around before, it might go easier. wish I could remember what its called. foreplay I think!

I had the SAME problem... actually have... Umm my boyfriend and I we've had sex hundreds of times, at first it REALLY hurt, then about 4 whole months of doin it twice every weekend it didn't hurt that much and 2 months later it didn't hurt at all, so I thought that everything was about time; BUT I was surprised when I got my period 2 weeks ago, and when it was gone we tried to do it and it hurt sooo much we couldn't, and I thought it was gonnna be that one time because I had just finished with my period, but last night we tried again and it hurt so much I started crying, and I just don't understand what's wrong... Maybe I have an STD that's making me REALLY tight as if I was a virgin again or sth; But I hope that's not your problem, so, I my opinion, It's just about time, it usually takes a long time until you get to actually enjoy it and feel more conmfortable.