Why does she feel pain when I finger her?

I was extremely gentle and careful.

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My girlfriend and I have been dating for 18 months now and we both love each other a lot. We are both 18 and virgins. While we were making out the other day she was really wet and I was just rubbing her down there. She told me to put my finger in her, and I was mostly gentle, but I think I went too far in, too fast. She said it hurt, even though I barely moved when I was inside her. About a month later, we were doing the same thing and we did it again. This time I was extremely careful, getting my finger wet all around and going very slow. She said it felt good but also hurt at the same time! I really want her to feel good, but when will it feel good for her? For the record, she is on an intense dance team and can do the splits and then some so I don’t know if it’s a stretching problem and we don’t know if her hymen is broken or not…

If over time she gets sore its just normal she will get used to it the next few times you do ib but be careful n use lube

If over time she gets sore its just normal she will get used to it the next few times you do ib but be careful n use lube

from a girls point of view…. for the first time a girl had something in her vigina it hurts….its uncomfortable…..its not her…its every girl….the pain level is different for each girl….some girls gett it very low pain but others have extremly high. her hymen is probally alredy broken…but you can never be sure until you go farther.

• Maybe bcuz yu havee sharp nails ndd ur scratchin her insides or if yu havee fatt fingaz itt may feel lykk a d*ck to her or she is juss nott usee to feelin datt….. I hopee i was helpful = ]]

Everything is good now we’re probably going to move on to sex soon. It was just getting used to it.