Feel ashamed and get rid of unwanted hair

Don't know if anyone can help I don't know how to say this but I'm just going to come out with it. I feel very ashamed and disgusted with myself because I've grown up and I'm 20 years old and have a very hairy body I think for a girl. Although my sister...

has always said to me she is worse I cannot stand looking at myself like this. Of course I take care of myself go to the beautician's and all when I have to wax, fotolysis, have never tried laser but I'm thinking of it. I want to get rid of all of the hair I have on my stomach, back, and private parts. I can't do most of my stomach and back with fotolysis I don't think, at least that's what one beautician told me. A part of my stomach and back I do because the hair is different. I feel akward going to the beach and all although you have to be very close to me to see it and when I get tanned it's harder to see it but now I just realised my boyfriend has no hair on his stomach. Well he probably has more and waxes or something right? I saw him once when he took off his shirt. We never went to the beach together yet because I'm on vacation with my family now but when I go back we will definately. This isn't the reason why I want to do this. I find my body disgusting and after seeing him that he has nothing, yucky me. It also seems that as time goes by things get worse why? I'm not growing anymore although I do have problems with my period and all and yes I am seeing a gynecologist. Does that play a big role though? Does anyone have any idea about what I should do?

First off, you need to relax. Not every guy has hair on their chest and belly (my husband doesn't). Laser should be able to get rid of your hair problem but why should you? You said that unless the person is really close they can't see. Well, the only person that should be that close is your boyfriend and believe me, he is NOT going to care if you have some light hair on your stomach or back.

Good luck, and learn to love your body

pretty much every girl hads hair around those places, its just all different colours depending on your backgroung. if you come from say italy or have that in your blood, your hair will be a bit darker than people from say australia or ireland. if you cant relly notice it you shouldnt need to do anything permanent to get rid of it. and not all men have hair on there bodies...youll findd some men with hairy legs, and some without...same goes for chest hair. although its also common for huys to get rid of there body hair as well now. if you cant really notice it all that much, maybe you could just bleach it. that way it will be lighter than the colour it already is, and you might not even need to shave/wax all the time because it would any harder to see

heyy dont worry aboutt itt.. I've got the same prob and I just wax my tummy and shave my private... my boyfriend doesnt care abt the rest of the hair.. he says its natural.. so just relax and trust me after your tummy is hairless you wont notice the rest of it