How to deal with being alone with 3 kids?

my family have decided to all to get at me putting me down ... I am 23 with 3 kids. my fiance left me last week because of them and now I am left with nobody.. I just want to get up an leave.. I dont no what to do any more..

don't try and take the situation out on them. it's going to be hard, I know it will be. but you just have to stay calm and patient and let them know you will be there for them! Children need to be loved and they need to know you are in charge. If you need help finacially you can try going to a food bank maybe try to find a job working from home to get some money.

Don't leave! You can get through it. Its going to be tough! Very tough but you will make it. If you have friends, have them stay with you and help you. Find a babysitter, and get some time to yourself for a few hours. If you dont have friends go get some! There are a lot of people in your situation, you can do it though. You just have to believe and give it everything youve got! You have to be there for your kids. They need you! Pretty soon they will be old enough to do stuff on their own and it will make it easier.

hope I helped, xoxo

whatever you do dont leave. you need to get through this you can't ditch your kids because someone left you, imagine how the kids would feel. ask your friends or family to help out. theres hundreds of people in the world in the same situation as you and loads worse off.

take care of your kids, take care of yourself. get a job if you dont have one, even if its part time work.

good luck hun

hope everything works out okay for you.

x

Take their negativity as a personal challenge to show them up.

Hey I am a singel parent of 3 and there is no way I could just get up and leave them just cus my love life is not working out for me. My kids come first before any one. you have to take care of your kids if not you then who will? they are looking up to you to be there for them.