How can I give myself ear piercings

No piercing will heal in a week. The soft part of the ear lobe takes at least six weeks to heal to the point that you can leave the earring out for short periods of time. But even then you still risk them closing up.

You can’t hide a piercing that is on your head. Your parents will eventually see it. Try talking to your mom and give her valid reasons that you want it done. Don’t just tell her that “everyone is doing it” Give her YOUR reasons for wanting it done. When my kids were growing up I told them they could get things pierced or tattooed when they were old enough and smart enough to give me THEIR reasons for wanting it done.

its safer do go to a place that will do them for you. as you have no expirience with peircing or what could go wrong… but if you must the ear is the “safest” place you could peirce yourself make sure to leave the earring in foe at least a week or two, so it can heal also yeah, long hair can hide them a bit. there are also clear looking retainers you can buy, there plastic though so your peircing needs to be healed before you put them in.