How can i get rid of my stepdad?

How can I get rid of my stepdad? I CANT STAND HIM! We only get along sometimes.He is nice to me when my mom is around but, hes mean when shes not. He makes me mad so sometimes I yell at him but I get grounded. How do I learn to ignore him? I WANT HIM...

GONE!

Maybe set up a hidden camera to document how he treats you, then show your Mom....keep your attitude in check - don't yell ! - just makes matters worse (entices confrontation)....I know it's hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel, but it is absolutely true: This too will pass and you're on your way to a bright future.

Good Luck and God Bless !!

yh same here!! i kno how u feel like...wht i did is i sat him n my mom down n tlked everything thru! it was rly awkward cause im not close with my stepdad at all! but ull get ovr it faster n develope a btr relationship with him!!

Good luck..hope its works out..hope i helped!!

i really am in the same boat you are in so if you find a getting rid of step dads anonamous club let me know

Omg This is like the question I have been waitin for .. I absoloutely H-A-T-E my stepdad hes not even my stepdad hes some dude my mom has been engaged 2 for like 7 years ... hes an alcholic and when he is drunk he has serious problems he friggen attacks me and before I had a black eye from him but somehow my mom still likes him .. she talks about if she gathers enough money me n her are goin to move into an apartment ( I live in giant house with a pool sauna and whirpool in the basement ) so what a change but who cares . When hes not drunk hes kinda nice .. notice the word '' kinda '' . anyway I have advice for you get him back cuz no matter what you do I dont think that ur gonna get rid of him .. just talkin from my experience . Anyway say lies about him and what he does like calls you names and says mean stuff about you , tell this to your mom . Now if your mom is nice she'll kick him out lol hope you have fun and listen to the best advice up here :P

same here he is a jeark sometimes my mom also they fight all the time and i sick of it and i cant stand it i cry every night.

same here my step dad is a real jerk to, he gets drunk a lot and flirts with people in front of my mm, but I think the best thing to do is avoid him and try to break him and your mom up any way you can like telling your mom that its either him or you, most likely your moms loves you to much to see you walk out of her life

this may sound stupid but as long as he makes your mum happy you shood be your mum likes him and you shouldnt ruine her relationship if he relly is that bad then your mum eventurly find out and take action but you sholdnt ruine your mums life

I know how u feel I have the same problem!! Like before my mom and my dad got divorced she would always hide in her room and pretend she was sleeping so nobody would bother her but she would just talk on the phone for hours and hours! In ur case he's mean to you I think you, your mom, and ur stepdad should sit together at the dinner table and tell your mom about it if he denies it talk to someone u trust like a family member or something. Just don't let him do that!! I hope my advice works!

if he's really a bad guy then your mom should see it but if she's to inlove with the creep then you have to do something to make her see what a jackass he really is like save up ALLOT of money and then buy a video recorder and hide it somewere and when you and him are alone, prove he's an asshole by recording it! i think i'll try that, my step dads a fat, old, jobless, a-hole, and he drinks alll the time. my mom never got drunk when he wasn't around and there always yelling at each other. well if my idea cant help then im sorry. bye bye!

well i have the same problem and well i think you should tell your mum how you feel thats the best soloution.

wow.. thats a good question.. message me when u get a good answer, cause i have none

My step dad is pretty much the same, when my real dad buys me thing he acts like he owns it, he says everything belongs to him untill I move out. I love my mom, she seems pretty happy, I tell her everything that goes on between me and him, she doesnt like it at all, but she says my attitude makes it worse for me and she is right. What you should do is try and keep a good attitude, make sure you tell your mom the truth(ALWAYS), you dont have to me nice to you step dad but at least have a good attitude to prove to your mom you tried. If this doesnt help them I have no idea...lol

Good luck and best wishes3

keep pissing him off and lie to your mom or say you saw him with another lady but you got to cry while saying it

honey I can tell you from experience unfortunately there is no way to get rid of a step dad... my step dad has been makin sexual advances towards me for at least 3 years now and I have told my mom about everytime and she is still with that bastard -pardon my french- and I have no way of supporting myself completely yet so all I do is lock myself in my room whenever my mom is takin a bath or sleepin and I am only in the same room when mom is there... if she leaves I leave too and I just hope and pray for the day I have enough money to get out of here and never look back till the day he finally is gone