Do you think a man has to shave his arm pit when is wearing a bvd

Do you think a man has to shave his arm pit when is wearing a bvd or a sport shirt.

I never heard of guys shaving their pits because they were wearing sleveless shirts.

I've seen guys that were so hairy it looked like they had a horses main under their arms. If you are that hairy it might not be a bad idea to trim it back but guys shaving their pits seems a little fay to me.

Some guys do. My opinion on male body hair is that it should be neat and trimmed, just like the hair on your head.

I want to look like a man rather than a boy, but I don't want to look like an ape man.

not unless you want to lose your manly-ness...
unless you have what the above me said...

I would, and I don't feel feminine or any less manly for doing it.
Of course you could always trim it.

Just my opinion, but No, No, and No. I'm a gay man with a kink side, and burying my face in a hot furry pit is phermone heaven. Some shaved, candied-up pit is a total turn off, and the definite mark of a sissy boy (be he gay, str8 or bi).