Do women enjoy watching men mas*urba*e?

I know most guys really like watching a woman pleasure herself. But last night, I decided the sex with my girlfriend had gotten boring, so I suggested we watch each other mas*urba*e. I often find I enjoy mas*urbat*on more than sex because 1) I'm looking at an attractive female, and 2) I get my rocks off either way.

Anyway, the point is, my girlfriend really didn't enjoy watching me mas*urba*e as much as I watched her. She said it didn't make her feel very good about herself to see me pleasuring myself to a 2-dimensional, air-brushed, silicone-enhanced picture. Do any of you ladies out there feel differently about this issue?

I enjoy watchig men mas*urba*e, but to see you mas*urbat*ng to another woman's picture would probably have turned me right off. I think gals want to feel that they are the most sexiest desirable thing in the universe when a guy is with them. Maybe it wasn't the mas*urbat*ng part that made her feel bad, but the fact that she wasn't the main point of focus. Ah well! Diiferent strokes, for different folks!

) ladies prefer doing them..

Men are visual creatures, women could really care less about a picture of a pen*s, while a man will flip over a picture of t**s, ass or pussy.

Personally I don't MIND watching a man mas*urba*e, but it helps if I'm activly participating, either helping him, or helping myself

A lot of women enjoy mutual masterbation, but most of us lovely ladies, will stop pleasuring ourselves, to focus on our man. There is nothing some women love more than pleasing a man.

Oh yeah, why the hell would you need a picture when she was in the room with you? The fact there your girlfriend was watching should have been the biggest turn-on.

~Tiffany~

arabfilly20:
Let's be honest with ourselves here. Women are more visually stimulated than they would care to admit...especially younger women. I've seen plenty of women stare and go weak at the knees when a hot guy walks by, especially if he's ripped and has a washboard stomach.
And women's magazines have such pics in their pages for the same reason men's magazines do. But you have a good point, helping the man mas*urba*e is even hotter for both.

tiffany88:
No worries, I mas*urba*e to my girlfriend all the time, and I guarantee you I will be mas*urbat*ng to her even more after I see her in the sexy policewoman costume she is wearing tonight.

In my opinion and experience, the only reason I would resort to watching a guy mas*erba*e is if he wanted to watch me. I would never ask him to I would rather to things myself, but if he wanted to watch me I would. The only thing that would bother me out of it is if thats all he wanted to do all the time. then that would make me question if he actually likes being with me at all or just his own hand. But it sounds like you have a good variety going on lol
And I believe women are very visually stimulated, but not in the way you think. Yeah every girl will see a hunky guy and think 'omg id love to see him naked' or something like that, but if it actually does come down to doing the deed with him, we love nothing more than to grab his big shoulders and feel his back and so on.......you get my drift.....not just sit there and watch him do things to himself.

I think you need help... to mas*urba*e over a pic of a modle is fine, but to do it infront of your lady is just plane silly. did you really think she would like that, and I cant even beggin to think how un sexy and ugly you made her feel, that pore woman. if she had got some photos of men that were hung like a donky and really good looking then masturbated infrunt of you, would that make you feel good about yourself. NO

I dont think its fun at all to watch someone mas*urba*e. esspecialy men. she proll why feels bad b/c she isnt the one pleasuring you the pic is. sex and pleasure should be between you and her and not you and something else. thats how I would feel. why didnt you just think of some new sex postions?

I think if you did it but watching her and not a pic then that would of been fine

I personally like watching my man mas*urba*e. On one condition, I would prefer he mas*urba*e when he's watching me, and that its because of me he is doing this. I find it very flattering

of corse not all women feel the same way, but if I had to guess then I'd say no, they don't like watching men mas*erba*e. its been my experience that most women don't like the idea men are haveing orgazams with out them or with out their knowlege. I've been told by many of my straight friends (yes I'm gay), that their GFs are very threatened by their 'porn collection', no matter how old it is. to me, this is silly. its totaly unrealistic to think any person can TOTALY control anothers orgazam all the time. in the end it will only serve to drive people apart. control freaks are lousy lovers!

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Not being a female I still tend to agree with what most of the women here have posted. It seems to me that women don't mind watching a guy doing himself as long as they are the stimulus that is causing him to do it. In other words, he is being turned on by her and not by some pictures or porn movie. I believe it's only natural that a woman enjoys turning on a man and I think most of them learn at a very early age just how to do that. However men being the visual creatures they are, they are still going to get themselves off when they are turned on unless there's a woman to do it for him. Here's where a woman might find it expedient to take things into her own hands, literally. Tell the guy to put away those two dimensional aids and look at her instead and then give the guy a hand. Show him what turns you on and what you like to do and keep him drained to the point he won't have any libido left for pictures/porn. Become proactive!!

Since I'm only 13 I'd probably want to get in on the action.
instead of her watching let her do it to you and you do it to her

if you were my boyfriend I would dump your sorry butt, man how dumb can you be?? why in the world would you think she's enjoy looking at you mas*urba*e to someone else???

I'm sorry if I had hurt your feeling, it wasn't my intentions, it seemed to me at first that you were just rtying to be mean and cruel to your girlfriend. It would hurt me a lot if that was me. Plase don;t attack me or my advice I am a pretty nice person and pretty smart if you can give me a chance.

You should have been looking at her! No wonder she wasn't into it. Geez...

I agree with skinnysazwannabe, I likw to watch my b/f masterb@t3, I love the faces he be making, its a turn on for me.

every girl like different stuff its really unpodictable

I love for a woman to watch me play with myself. to know she is watching me enjoy my own body and knowing she is watching me get myself off is the BEST.

Ewww! Gross!!! No Way!

How do you mas*urba*e seeing your girlfriend or wife..thats just awkward unless you c*m on her... I dont want to be rude...but I guess there no other way of doing it...either this or having it done to you by a girl(hand job, blow job) which is what people normally do
But what the question meant was not sexual intercourse nor watching porn and then mas*urbat*ng in your girlfriend's presence...
the question was about mas*urbat*ng by just looking at your girlfriend at a distance from you, who herself is mas*urbat*ng..this was the question...this scenario is really awkward I think

Do you guys fees hot while writing these. I feel while reading your answers

I like to watch my husband!