Do i give him a hand or blow job?

My boyfriend and I have been together for awhile. He's done stuff to me, like fingering and etc... He's a lot more experienced than I am. He's had 3 or 4 serious girlfriends that each lasted awhile before he got to me. He's my first boyfriend, and...

everything that we do is new to me. But for him, he's already been through it all. I've been nervous through everything because it was a first for me, but with him I'm comfortable. My question is do I give him a hand job? Because I'm totally not comfortable giving him a blow job. And I'm hesitant to give him a hand job. Because well... I'm just scared honestly.

If you're not ready to do anything, then just don't. Talk to him about it. If you're not comfortable enough to TALK to him about doing these things, then I really don't think that you should actually be doing them.

Take care x

don't do anything your not confortable doing.

just dont what your comfortable with

ask him about it... ask him what he likes and stuff

do what you think... it well all end out the way it is...

hmm. who said you had to do anything to please the guy?

Don't do it.

Seriously if you do you are like the other girls who just let him do it and you will be known as one of the girls he did this sort of thing with. then the name calling will ensue.

But if you do. Hand jobs are weak. Just get in there and experience sex but be VERY SAFE about it. If you don't want to do it and you find out in the middle of it don't let him talk you into it.

BTW if you are underage you shouldn't be doing anything with anyone in particular.

Just to let you know this advice is assuming you are of age.

You are at that age when you should start doing stuff. The best is that if you regard all the stuff like a play. In fact, sex should be a fun for you, nothing else.