Would you cry if your parents were divorcing?

I am 13, and my parent's are getting a divorce. I CANT STAND IT!! their always fighting and makeing me feel like crap. my mom says it's my fault. I cried about it the other day at school and people made fun of me for crying. would you cry if your...

parents were getting a divorce?

First lets get one thing straight. When your mom said that her divorce was your fault she is absolutely full of crap. She is saying mean things to hurt you; probably for something you shouldn't even be faulted for.

You need to find a kind supportive person to talk to. If your parents are at war over the divorce they probably won't be that person for the time being anyway; they are too busy trying to hurt each other to be any help to you.

Good luck!

Im 17 and I would cry also... It sucks and Im srry to hear.

My parents divorced when I was twelve. I cried endlessly. Don't feel bad for crying. And don't let your mom tell you that its your fault.

my parants got divorced when I was twelve I got pretty mad untill I realised that at least now there not fighting and if people make fun of you for something like that there not real freinds and you better lose them quike my advice chin up girl ital all work out =)

I would allso cry I am 14 allthough my mum and dad split when I was a baby I sometimes blame my self its just your mum has no rights to blame you so dont feel to upset try and be happy and focus on your own life atleast you know you wont be silly like them when your older x x x [ash] hope I hoped and gl x

I would!... and don't feel bad about those you laughed at you, then don't have the heart of situation like that. I think instead of laugh... they should try to comfort you. And I am very sorry about what you are going thru. I don't think your mom should say its your fault, because you have no way for them to get divorce. It's them(you mom and dad)only. I just hope and pray that they will work things together and make things better.

Hey Babe,
I know what you are feeling...
My parents got divoced when I was 1 but even though I don't remember it I still cry about it,I am really sorry that your mom said it was your fault but really it wasn't she just said that because she is going through a lot of stress and mixed emotions and she doesn't really know what to say.So I hope you don't beleive that it was your fault.
Contact me as soon as possible if you need anything or want to tlk (email/type)
Thanks!
I hope this helps!
-Hanna

you mother had no right saying that to you hun. they've grown apart and it will work out for the best. you and yuor parents will be much happier, you'll see

its ok for you to cry, your mom is just probably upset about what's happening to their relationship and she doenst want to take the blame so she took it on you. just try to understand her, she's just on denial stage, just try to see every positive things of what's happening to you and your family and learn from it..maybe the divorce is a better solution for it. its going to be ok..good luck to u!