Dirty texts? Parents reading boyfriends texts?

Well having sex at fourteen is deffinetley a huge step, but it isnt an irresponsible one. we were safe and all that stuff, and we discussed what would happen if I got pregnant and stuff like that. so no it wasnt irresponsible.

hahaha. oh no. if at 16 your boyfriends parents are going through his msgs, youv got problems. and if your old enough to have sex at 14 then your old enough to deal with any consequences that may follow…

I don’t know, because she is more like my bff than my mother.. and I told her about the sex part.. and I think she might be dissapointed in me, because of the dirty texts because its “irresponisible?”

its really messed up that his parents read his texts and I think that you should tell her before she finds out from someone else because she will feel really hurt and besides I bet if you tell her before she finds out she would trust you cause you came and told her

okay.. that sounds like good advice… :) thanks.. you mean tell my mom right?cause if thats what you mean, I sorta told her. but I am kinda embarrassed to tell her all of it.. I even told her about having sex.. but for some reason I cant tell her about the dirty texts :/

no I am 14 and he is 16.. its not the sex part my mom would be mad at about.. its the dirty text part.. because I don’t know its riddiculus. Dont you think that it is just messed up that his parents are going through his phone?!

how old are you!? why is his parents going through his phone!? are you about ten… my mum helps me out with what to write in dirty texts..

…o…k… n___n

It seems you’ve kinda got your priorities all screwed up…

…so the TEXTS are irresponsible to her, but sex at 14 somehow isn’t?

its not the sex part my mom would be mad at about.. its the dirty text part..

…uhhh… why?

Stop having a go at her! shes asking for advice, because this is FUNADVICE.!! if you dont agree with what shes saying then piss off!!! and my mum is like that too! im 16, and years ago my mum said she wouldnt be bothered about me having sex as long as I was safe and told her! and I dought shed be too bothered about the dirty texts, but id still be embarrased to talk about that with her! more embarassed as I would be to talk about sex with her, becuase shes spoke about sex with me, ad not texts! well I find to just be truthfull is the best! but ou asked this months ago so I presume its sprted out :) but fun mail me to talk :) and see how things turned out! hope your ok sweet :) x