When will we finally do it so it's over with?

I have been dateing this guy for 8 years im 14 and he wants to have sex I said yes and it hasnt happend yet I want to know if this has happend to anyone before I know he loves me and doesnt want to hurt me but when will it happen I want to get it over with already I love him so much it killes me how much I do

How can you be datin a gut 4 8yrs if your only 14?wow dats sooo freaky!

the 8 years has nothing to do with it, she's either lying or she got with him when they were kids (which isn't much of a relationship, they're still kids).

14 is too young for sex. both of you need to grow up, maybe wait two more years ATLEAST before you have sex.

I dont mean to be harsh, but I have read some of your other posts and can tell you with some degree of certainty that having sex will end in disaster for you (ie getting pregnant). Sex is not something that you 'want to get over with'. It is something that happens naturally when two people are deeply in love with each other. I have been exactly where you are now at around your age and wanting desperatly to lose my virginity. But these feelings come about because of lack of respect for yourself. If you get this point, really get it, then you will completely turn your life and your future around.

I'm 13 and have had sex. it's not bad, it feels good, and the other girls are all jealous

Confused13Girl, your username says it all. Having sex at such a young age is nothing to brag about. The other girls are not jealous they just have more self-respect. Hopefully that is something you will learn when you are a bit older and wiser.

Nicely said clealuira!

Dating this boy since you were 6? Thats just rediculous! It wouldnt matter if you were born on the same day, and started dating, thats not a reason to have sex! You are far too young & immature to even know the emotional side effects sex has! You are a child making an adult decision. Your clearly not mentally ready, even if your hormones are saying otherwise! Love & sex are NOT the same thing! Premarital sex is not patient, it is not kind, it does not protect, it is self-seeking. It is not love!

How can you've been dating for 8 years when you're only 14? I don't get that part. Kids don't date. and you're 14 that's young for sex, but then again people these days are doing it much younger. But it's your choice...if you want to do it, just tell him. Trust me, then ya'll will do it.