Cheating mother.

my mom has been cheating on my dad for about two years. im the only one who knows. shes cheating on my dad (married 17 years) with multiple men. about 4. she cheated once before and my dad found out and forgave her. now shes doing it again. and its bad....

I real her emails. I read her myspace. I read her texts. I listen to her secret phone calls. they all discust me. how do I bring this up to her? do I tell my family? if my family finds out. it will tear us apart. we are struggling as it is. my sister recently got scoliosis surgery. my dad was laid off work. I myself am struggling to find a job. what do I do?

You need to confront your mother about this. What she is doing isn't only affecting her - it's affecting everyone in your family.

If you don't have the courage to speak to her face to face, maybe try sending her an email. Tell her you know what she's been doing and you want her to stop.

Whatever you do, don't say anything to your father unless she decides she has no intention of stopping...give her the chance to make things right.

I confronted her once. I was like Who the f*** is Randy? and she was like A friend.

Ok I no what your going though what I would do is tell your mom that you found out what she is doing and you want her to stop... Then wait like a week and if she still didn't stop tell your dad... Then hopefully things will straighten out and your mom will stop

Stop spying on your mother? No matter what she's doing, spying on her is wrong...

You might want to try honesty and tell her you know about the affairs...

Your mom will not stop even if you told her you knew . Tell her you know , tellher you are going to tell everyone when the time is right . If your dad is good 2 her, ask yourself does he deserve this from her ? If not tell someone older an uncle , or grandparent they will find the correct way 2 tell him.

1 thing I wouldnt do is tell your mom your gonna tell someone