Are they really friends?

how do I know if my friends are really my friends???

do they put you down when you try to do something? do people say oh ___ said this to me about you... if so they're not you're friends

one of them does but there is just other things im not sure of

Dear crazy,
We choose the people we hang with by how they make us feel. Do they make you feel loved, accepted, respected etc. If the answer is no to any of these then it's time to seek out new friends.
Sue...good luck