How can i break my own hymen?

I am a virgin and I want to know how to break my own hymen. I have been wanting to for awhile now and I don't want my first time to be so painful. I know it will inevitably be painful, regardless of my hymen, but, maybe this would help. I just don't want...

it to be gross and start bleeding on him and have to get up to 'clean' up before we really get into the sex. Please share advice and if I should just let it happen while having sex. Thanks!

it doesn't hurt some girls regardless of their hymen if your really turned on and wet you should be fine. i don't understand why you would want to break it yourself... but someone people are born without one and others have already broken it by some sports like gymnastics or tampons.

I broke mine myself, I bought a vibrator and some lubricant, and my first time was way less painful that some of my friend's experiences. It did hurt when I did it, I'd compare it to getting your ear pierced. The pleasure afterwards is so worth it!

Well before I lost my virginity my man fisted me to break it and it worked.
And the sex wasn't as painful.
But once you srat going the pain turns into pleasure