Boyfriends parents approval

So my boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 years, hes 18, I'm 17...he lives in a different state, but we see eachother as often as possible. Hes my amazing. I hadnt seen him in nine months, but I finally got to see him this week, I saw him for two days...it was totally amazing, but heres the thing. His parents hate me. Their down here looking at colleges for him, cause he's moving here in august to go to college and so we can be together (finally) but his parents told him just the other day that "you'll never be more than just friends " blahblahblah. They really really dislike me. Obviously, he knows its ulimatly his decision, but its still really really hard for him not to have his parents blessing on this. He obviously thinks their on crack for this and would choose me in a heart beat, he already has, but I want him to feel better about this, cause I can see its really hard for him. How can I help him let it go?

I VTHINK you SHOULD SIT HIM AND HIS PARENTS DOWN AND TELL THEM THAT you LOVE THERE SON AND IF THEY WANT THERE SON HAPPY THE WILL RESPECT HIS DECISTION!

IT'S NOT HIS PARENTS DECISION ON WHO HE WANTS TO BE WITH BUT THEY DO PLAY A BIG PART BECAUSE IF HIS PARENTS DONT LIKE you you WOULD'NT BE ABLE TO DO ALL THE FAMILY THINGS LIKE GATHERINGS AND HOLIDAYS.IT SHOULDNT REALLY MATTERS TO THEM WHO THEY SON IS DATING AS LONG HAS HE'S HAPPY AND HAVE SOMEONE WHO LOVES HIM FOR HIM.HE NEED TO TELL HIS PARENTS HOW HE FEEL ABOUT you AND THEY SHOULD STILL RESPECT you EVEN IF THEY DONT LIKE U.BECAUSE I'M SURE you RESPECT THEM EVEN THOUGH you know THEY DONT LIKE YOU.HE SHOULD TELL HIS PARENTS TO LET IT GO.HE LOVE you AND THATS ALL THAT MATTERS!

Well you should look more towards the future and not the past. Parents never want their children to grow up and make their own decisions so they rebel like teenagers. I pretty much disowned my parents after they went against my wishes. I still tell them to go away whenever they try to contact me, so they contact my wife(which they thought she was a terrible mistake in the first place) and my wife is a lot more forgiving than I am.

I think it is the biggest sin to go against someone's first major adult decision even if it is a bad one. I mean there's no harm in stating your opinion but acting towards what YOU think would should happen or their choice should be is total disrespect and should not be tolerated.

It's your choice to whether or not to turn him against his parents or try to make him feel better but if they're taking the defensive position against you, why would you let them bash you without taking a defensive position for yourself? What would make him feel better is for you to have a strong point and passion towards something.

thanks theinjun, that helps a lot =)
thanks...rainonme...I guess...lol

I think his parrents approval of you dosent matter. his parents are clueless because if they want there sun to be happy and not with you I guess there no possibility because it sounds like hes only going to be happy with you! I think his parents are jealous that he wants to be with you more than them!

WHO CARES it seems to me that he is absoulutly in love with you so who cares what his parents think there not the ones that are going to be there when he needs somone to hold or to comfort him at night you are adn if yall love each other than GO FOR IT GOOD LUCK

yeah they're right...tell him you'll do your best as in you wont be a b*tch around them, but in the end there's only so muh you can do, especially if they're already biased against you...I wonder why. you seem pretty much awesome..but yeah they're probably just whaaccckkeeddd