Is it bad that my boyfriend and I are planning to have sex and have a baby at 15 and 17?

Sex, no, baby, yes. Not only bad but stupid and irresponsible. CHOOSING to potentially harm yourself and your child, make your life extremely difficult, decrease your chances of finishing school and potentially make your child’s life harder? Very bad.

stoopid

Colleen stated it right.

What happens to the baby when one or both of you grow tired of “playing “ house and realize what the reality encompasses? Ten years from now you will both be saying to yourselves …how stupid could I have been….I thought I knew everything… Boy was I wrong!!

well i guess it’s not bad if you have a couple things going on. here i’ll list a few things that would make is a great idea.

first your parents will kill you literally and you want to die. second your like a billion era third you finished college at a young age have a great job and want to pay child support later when you too break up. fourth you have some reason you wont be alive at 25 to have a child when you might be able to actually take care of it

i defenitly agree. i do not know what it is like but i know it would be hard to go to school and have a kid

my mom was 18 when she had me and 19 when she had my brother and my dad left after my brother was born and she had to drop out of college and 13-14 years later she is now going to college and things are really hard for her

BAD IDEA!!! do not do it! are you going to be that stupid!!? you guys are gonna end up breaking up most likey one day what then? you are going to drop out of school or make your parents take care of the kid? wait until you are out of college to have a kid and have a good job with you college degree. just wait! trust me and what everyone else is saying DONT BE STUPID!

Why would you want to have at baby at 15. that is actually really stupid. not trying to sound mean. but there must be something wrong with you. Why would you give up the once chance you have at being young by forcing yourself to grow up? when you have a baby you need to be mature enough to take care and provide for another living being! why would you do that at 15?! your boyfriends probably going to dump you in a month anyways. do you actually believe you are going to be with this guy the rest of your life? barely any high school relationships last.

do you have any idea how hard that is for a teen mother? think about it, your 15, he’s 17, your both still in school. you would either struggle like you never have, or drop out, and in this day in age, you can’t afford to do either. a baby would only make it harder for you, plus your probably not emotionaly stable to have a child quite yet. babies are a lot of responsibility, it’s a life your taken care of that needs a lot of your time, love, and caring nurting motherly instincts. i suggest waiting until your well into your years to have children. im 22 and i want kids, but at least we’re wanting to wait until we get settled into a house first.

It’s not that mature, considering the fact that you two are still in school and probably staying with you parents. At this point, a child will just add on to your troubles.

Not only is it a bad idea, it is also illegal. He can go to jail for statutory rape, will have to register as a sex offender, be locked out of many jobs, etc. You will very likely loose the baby due to the fact that you are not equipped to take care of a baby, neither of you are of legal age to buy or own property, neither of you can sign a rental contract so you will have to live with your parents. There are a lot of reasons not to do this, there is not one good reason to punish an innocent baby with that kind of life.