Why do I still bleed after sex?

I'm 18 years old and I have a sex question.. when me and my boyfriend have sex I bleed..it ends up hurting me so we have to stop..to me it is very embarrassing but he seems not to care about the blood,what I love about him is he doesn't complain when we have to stop because he cares that it hurts and he doesn't like to see me in pain..I enjoy the sex until I start to bleed and I would like to continue to enjoy it without the bleeding and pain..I was told that it was lack of lubrication or possibly something wrong, I also spot blood for a day later..I would appreciate your response and help...thank you

go see a doctor, it is not normal unless you are having your period...that shudn't be happening so obviously something is wrong and I wouldn't trust anyone on the internet to diagnose it.

Agreed - go see your Doctor, only he/she will be able to tell you what's going on and what to do/how to deal with it.

did you have sex before and stopped for a long time and then have sex again? I started having sex when I was 15. I bled my first time. I was in a longterm with my first then we broke up. I didnt have sex with every boyfriend unless it was serious. I dated boys after that but didnt have sex with them.(becouse the relationship was only 3or4 months)I had another long term with a guy a had sex with the second guy when I was turning 17. And I bled again.
So maby thats what it is.or you need to go see a doc.

Since you are sexually active you should be seeing gynocologist anyway. She or he will make sure you are in good health and can get you started on birth control. If you can't afford one there are health clinics and Planned Parenthood that can help. (A visit to the doctor is TOTALLY confidential, unless you use health insurance, then the holder of the insurance might know.)

According to Dr. Drew, a few women do bleed with sex, but pain is not normal.