Best Friend is confusing me!!!

My name is Darius Williams and I have a female best friend gabriella miller who I’ve been with my whole life since are parents are best friends .Gabriella is a tomboi and we spend almost every waking day together, we sleep in each other’s bed ,eat at eachother’s house,etc.

 I've been dating a girl named lauren for 3 weeks and ever since we started dating Gabriella has been avoiding me.She blocks me on the web cam , her cell , we never hang anymore, and etc. She refuses to look  at me or talk to me. When ever I approach her she gets this sad look and a red face like shes about to cry (Gabriella nevers crys) then one of her other best friends come and get her.

what is going on?

Answer #1

Ok, maybe she has some reason completely different from what im about to suggest, but this is what im getting from it.

It could be that she feels that she is loosing you. That you being with some other girl means you will not have time for her. So by cutting you out of her life, she feels like she is the one in control of the situation.

OR

It could be because she has feelings for you. Now that you have a girfriend, she wont have your full attention so she feels that there is no point spending time with you. She could be jealous about this girl and angry with you for being with some other girl and not her.

The best thing you can do is send her a text message or an email and explain how you are confused about the whole situation and that her avoiding you is killing you inside.

I can tell you really care about her.

So talk to her… I know that breaking up with your girlfriend may seem like the easiest thing to do, but its not the best thing to do. So communicate with your friend. Even if she isnt saying anything back, at least she can understand how you are feeling.

Answer #2

I am sure she likes you a lot so dump the other girl and tell gabriella that you did and tell her that you never wanted her to ignore you and still wanted to be her friend and wants to now, tell her how you feel and ask her why she has been acting differently and make sure she can trust u, talk it out with her and mabe she will feel better and if she asks you out why not say yes

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