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Best friend is dating my crush

Asked by missylee about 1 year ago, 3 answers.

some who I thought was my friend is going out with this guy who I have liked for 8 months.. should I have been more open and gone out with him while I could, or is this 'friend' in the wrong?!

Answered by carriedee333 on Aug 25, 2008, 03:14AM
159 answers

nup that is wrong - if she knew you liked him she should neva go out with him. you r right to feel upset. have you spoken to her about it - be up front and tell her the truth. if she doesn't either give him up or have a good explanation then I would have to advise to take a break from her as a friend. Good luck - and there will b a guy out there JUST for you!

Answered by thecool on Aug 25, 2008, 03:22AM
225 answers

The person above is wrong. Your friend shouldn't feel obligated to not go out with someone she wants to, just because you do too. No one needs to wait for you to make a move, so yea, it's your fault.

$\m/ yeeahhhh$ Answered by ilovemetal23 on Aug 25, 2008, 10:07AM
720 answers

I agree with thecool
if you liked him why didnt you ask him out or at least tell him
no-one will wait for u
you have to know that
you cant just call your friend a b!tch for going out with a guy you had a chance to go out with for 8 months...thats long enough
the world doesnt revolve around u, hun
get over it..its life.