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are moment was ruined because of me and this is why I need help

we were at the park in the abandoned part of it so we were all alone. and me and my b/f started to makeout and soon came to groping and I took off my shirt. it was all good. until he tried to go down my pants I keep telling myself that its alright its alright but I freaked out and said no and just started to pull his arm up. he asked why and I said some other time. but really I didnt want to do it because of what he might think or say about whats down there like something about pubs or something.(I know retarted right). and I really think he is special and stuff. and I really want to go that far with him.(fingering). but I keep freaking out.

where should I go to do this. what can I do to make myself okay with this. what should I do to make that self conciousness of what he might thinks go away.

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Answer #1

It’s normal to be self conscious especially when you two are doing this for the first time. You should do the fingering and all that in a bedroom and light candles. That’s pretty romantic! It’s also normal and natural to feel this way, but, if you two feel ready to continue with it farther, I’d go in a bedroom where you have privacy. Good luck, and be safe about things.

Answer #2

its okay to be self concious, about 99.2% of tennage girls in the world are self concious. But when you are really prepared to let the fingering happen, you should go someplace where there’s no one around (obviously) and possibley make a date of it, with candles on a balcony, or a bed room, wherever. it doesnt matter.good luck though.(:

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