Any fair ideas on what to ask for in return?

I transfered into a bigger unit in my complex. They forgot the unit was about to be occupied until I called to remind them a day before. They asked if I could move in a week later. I said no. They scrambled to make it somewhat presentable, and fell WAY short. The windows were cleaned, base boards dusted, light fixtures (that I bought) installed, and walls were painted. Everything else was filthy. There is a magic marker drawing of a playboy bunny on my cabinets. And this place is infested with fleas. I could go on and on. The manager is supposed to be in tomorrow for me to complain. What all should I ask for to make me happy after this nightmare move?

yeah - free rent for a start, I would also notate and photograph everything for future reference.
repairs- I would have him repair and replace everything that is not up to par with you.
and as mrscobainx3 said- bug bomb- this is going to probably put you out of your apartment for a little while, maybe have this guy pay for a hotel room while all of this is going on.
PHOTOGRAPH EVERYTHING!!!

A month of Free Rent.
Or new cabinets and he should pay to have the complex flea bombed.

Atleast something off of your rent and insect treatment (not just one time). Ronnie said he would be throwing a fit. That is crap and it is irresponsible of them to not have that ready for you knowing you have a small child. I would be pissed off for sure! And the cabinet thing come on now. Replace them or have a professional re-do them.
Good luck girly

Either a professional maid service to clean it, or a month free rent plus the complex doing the repairs.