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Am i overreacting to this situation?

Asked by cupcakes999 about 1 year ago, 7 answers.

In another Q, I mentioned how my two best friends leave me out a lot.

Well I asked one of them if they could go out last weekend and she was like yeah sure,what time?!

So we arranged it and all that. And then I came on MSN and she was lke 'sorry I cant...

go out anymore' and gave no reason

I just shrugged it off assuming that her mum had told her she couldn't or whatever.

But today I heard her and my other best friend talking about how they went out on saturday (the day we were meant to be going out, but she said she couldnt go)

I was really hurt that she told me she couldnt go out, then she goes and goes out with my other best friend instead. She didn't seem bothered either, she was talking to me today going 'When me and A (ill call her a, I don't want to mention names) went out on saturday, we saw this...' etc.

Am I over-reacting about this? Or am I right to feel hurt by it?

Answered by five_minutes_to_midnite on May 16, 2008, 09:26AM
146 answers

Your way not overreacting..right now I feel the same way you do,
my best friend's been like this for like two months,and I havent talked to her in like
two weeks,
but just talk to them let them know how you feel,it cant really hurt anything

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Answered by teresa_is_cool on May 16, 2008, 09:02AM
412 answers

you need new best friends now thats mest up a lot has hapend that I heard from you so yea thats what I would do because you dont need that

Answered by el_ricardo_777 on May 16, 2008, 09:02AM
111 answers

no, I don't think you're overreacting. maybe you should ask her why. If she's your best friend, she should tell you why honestly.

Answered by your_clebertiy_night_stalker on May 16, 2008, 09:04AM
323 answers

no I dont think your over reacting ... talk to them and tell them how you feel

Answered by ahmed911 on May 16, 2008, 09:07AM
6 answers

U are not overreacting ofc!! This would have hurt anyone really, I think you shouldnt ask her out again until she asks u, because if she doesnt want to go out with you then screw her

Answered by cuzmtvsaidso on May 16, 2008, 09:41AM
11 answers

You're not overreacting. If they're really your friends, they should A) want to hang out with you, and B) deffinatly shouldn't lie to you. If I were you, I would focus of finding new friends, or hanging out with other friends who maybe you aren't best friends with. That way you know you're not wasting your time hanging out with people who don't care about you as much as other people might.

Answered by panni on May 16, 2008, 10:18AM
100 answers

This really suck.Its also humiliating.I personally would not confront your so called friend with this problem just move on quietly find new interest hobby sport whatever.hang in there.